This girl that I hardly know suddenly has been showing a lot of interest in me. I am not physically or socially attracted to her very much. The other problem is that I'm a nice guy. I try not to hurt people's feelings. What should I do?
2006-06-22 17:08:45 · 12 answers · asked by falcon_nighthawk 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
turn her down politely, and try not to be in public. don't lead her into any kind of possible hook up. it'll hurt her more.
stop answering her phone after that. okie dokie ?
2006-06-22 17:11:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tartlettes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. Why do people have such a hard time with the truth? It does literally set you free. If you lie to her, you also are going to hurt yourself by feeling the remorse for being dishonest, and at some point, you will forget the truth, and lies will be the way of your life.
2006-06-22 17:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice guy ... huh. no, sry, i'm not saying you're not one but maybe this girl has a puppy dog love fer ya, nothing wrong with that and maybe you could start a friendship, just say in the beginning that you don't and probably don't plan on returning the feelings she has for you. no point in leading her on even if you don't know her. if i may assume this girl probably reads too much into your actions. yes, you're a nice guy, sure. maybe she dropped her bks or something and you picked them up fer her! maybe she thought that you did that cause you liked her?
just don't lead her on, even if you don't mean it. tell it to her straight!
2006-06-22 17:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by tinerr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok simple she has interest in you right. but u don't right. ok here how it go just tell her that now it's still not the time to go for BGR. because what we should do is study or someother that apply to u la. any tell her she will find much more better guy on her path way toward life. and tell her she is nice but you want to concen on ur study or anyhitng la. tell her study come first let be friends first see what we will get on our path.
2006-06-22 17:16:15 · answer #4 · answered by shawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably suddenly attracted to you because she has just been burned. Women do that. A bad boy breaks their heart, they run to the nice guy.
Just tell her. In your own nice way.
Good luck!
2006-06-22 17:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you said that you try not to hurt her,...so talk to her about your true feeling politely, find a nice words that will not irritate her so much....this is better than you pretend to love her,..then when she find out,..it really really will hurts her much,...much more than when you tell the truth.
Good luck
2006-06-22 17:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to distance yourself from this girl. I understand you not wanting to hurt her feelings, maybe you could just casually mention that you are not interested in dating anyone right now.
2006-06-22 17:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is being a nice guy a problem? and if u are nice- be truthful & don't lead her on, that would hurt her worse
2006-06-22 17:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by mommyrayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy.
Tell her the truth, let her deal with it on her own, and that way she can move on and find somebody who deserves her.
2006-06-22 17:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stay awayas possible and always find some excuse. she should get it eventually that you don't like her.
2006-06-22 17:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋