and then giggle. Why can some of you be sooo spectacularly retarded. And I don't mean all women, so if you're going to get uncivil and defensive and take this personally, I suggest you don't answer. Thank you.
2006-06-22 17:06:25 · 9 answers · asked by Ari 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My buddy and I were walking to some burger place and these two blond girls gave me a dirty look because I stared toward their direction. From some of your responses already, you're going to side with them. Sorry, but im getting that vibe. Then they started laughing. At a party in college some girl laughed in my face after a girl I took out once told her about me. Then at a bar I just walked by a girl, not doing anything and she said I was stalking her. Let the bias women team up on the guy they think is bringing it upon himself begin.
2006-06-22 17:16:44 · update #1
I also see a few of you (to no surprise) incinuating I'm in so many words "asking for it" in some fashion but is trying to weed out what it is I'm doing so to give me what you feel is an exact answer.
Let me tell you......no one deserves that. Sorry. You all come off as ignorant and misinformed people.
2006-06-22 17:22:15 · update #2
Some girls are just giggly. I mean are u saying something to these girls to make them laugh. Like using a lame pick up line or coming on to strong?
2006-06-22 17:09:04 · answer #1 · answered by andrea lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believes me, I feel your discomfort. I've been in this situation sometimes including today, unfortunately.
It happened rarely though, but it makes me feel pretty low. I sympathise with you.
I'm sure you're good enough to read body langages. I guess I understand how you felt.
When I read your question, it's almost like myself asking why.
Are they laughing in a way to make you feel bad or low?
Like there is something wrong about you physically.
Did you feel they seems to talk discreetly bad things about you between them?
About my case today, there were 3 girls who talked to each others in their native langagues. It was arabic languages.
Somehow, they seems to laugh at me indirectly and one of them gave me a despise look or try to make me uncomfortable.
Even though, I don't understand their languages I can feel there's something wrong around me. It's a presumption but you can really feel it.
Some people who can't hurt you physically will try the emotion side. They try to stab you legally which means the psychological part. You know what I mean.
Maybe those girls want you to feel that way and yes, that's simply low-class. I'm not a girl and I'm sorry if I answer this as a guy.
I just want to share it and wish you the best.
I don't know you but I believe you're a nice guy and nice people deserves better than trash.
2006-06-24 03:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by hyperwarrior 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This begs the question, what are you saying and or doing that would illicit such a response? Perhaps you're overconfident? Maybe your come-on lines need refreshing? Look in the mirror. How are you dressed and what does your hair look like? You must look mainstream.
You're probably fine and just need a little tweaking and coaching. Watch the movies Hitch and Love Potion #9.
Good luck.
2006-06-23 00:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by paddlinglikecrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people are nervous,and don't know what to say or do, they twist their hair, play with their utensils, shuffle their feet, act aloof, swear, giggle. What they really need to do is be still and listen and develop something called poise. My point? They lack practice in social skills. They are practicing, and are making a lot of goofy mistakes. So, hold your peace, bear with them, and by understanding this, you'll realize ITS NOT YOU! It's them. Practice makes perfect. Someday these women will probably become smoother, but until then, just be glad that you already are. : )
2006-06-23 00:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by AMELIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd need more information to answer that. What was going on when they laughed? Were you telling a joke, were they looking at you and pointing and giggling to eachother, were they just laughing and you happened to be in the vicinity?
2006-06-23 00:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by scheiem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman laughs in your face you must have given her a reason to do it. I really don't think it has anything to do with physical appearence. It is possible it is something in your attitude. I really don't know the answer to your question without knowing more details.
2006-06-23 00:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think your cute but are to shy to say anything.It is common for young girls to be a bit giggly when they see a cute guy
2006-06-23 00:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not single but it sounds like these girls are childish
2006-06-23 00:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you nuts or something else?
2006-06-23 00:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by chila_vie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋