It would be so easy, they’re geeks, so they are kind not b@stard millionaires, and they write computer software so are rich and smart, and easy to make happy, so good genetics, my kids could get really good jobs with the smarts that they wouldn’t get of me and I could stop stressing about working for the next 50 years! But on the other hand I wonder does this go against every thing feminists fought for like independence, it would be my choice and I wouldn’t be selling my self in not a bimbo but id just be kind because its in my nature and I could easily fall in love with a geek and I wouldn’t stay with him if I didn’t love him after a year ?
2006-06-22 16:50:51 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who cares if you marry a geek, go for it and have fun. just know that everyone will look at you and thik she only married him for his money, she doesnt love him, she doesnt deserve him.everyone will know that you are just with him for his money. so yes go ahead and marry this man, have kids that will be smart because of him not you, they will have good jobs because of dad not mom. they will be up in life becasue of dads hard work not mom, the only thing they will get from mom is how to shop for usless things. and how to use someone to get what yo uwant, not for love.in 50 years you will have several kids and not be happy at all.
2006-06-22 17:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 6 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Wow...this is a very shallow way of thinking....the best way to answer this question is to examine the consequences. Marrying a man you do not love and waiting a year to see if it happens is thinking on a unconscious level. You mentioned children, they will be a victim of being raised in yet another situation where the parents are screwed up or shall I say the mother.
What ever happened to the old fashion way.....marrying to love, honor, and cherishing the person. It sounds like your marrying for money and your conscious in bothering you because it goes against everything you USE to stand for. It's time to sit down and analyze where you picked up this unatural way of thinking. It could be possible that your hanging around the wrong people or the money is clouding your judgement. Also this is a clear indication that you value money more than happiness in your life. Whatever you decide, remember you will have to live with this decision for the rest of your life so making the right choice is cruticial to your character and well-being....peace and God Bless!!!
2006-06-22 17:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by Kenya_7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"It would be so easy, they’re geeks, so they are kind not b@stard millionaires, and they write computer software so are rich and smart, and easy to make happy, so good genetics, my kids could get really good jobs with the smarts that they wouldn’t get of me and I could stop stressing about working for the next 50 years! But on the other hand I wonder.."
I stopped reading there.
Those are great reasons to marry.
"It would be so easy"
Heh.
2006-06-22 16:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by remy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a serious issue and it's a contract with GOD as well as your spouse. It takes hard work to make it work and money isn't the answer. Rich or Poor if there is no love you have nothing to begin with but a divorce waiting to happen. You are selling yourself short honey cause you think you can be happy with a rich geek but do you think a rich geek will be happy with you? Don't get married just to get a divorce. Too many people play with their vows and that is playing with GOD's laws of marriage leading to unhappiness and stress and maybe even death. Never base your future on someone elses riches. You have riches of your own you just have to discover them. No harm meant but your idea sounds shallow. We have no idea if we'll even exist 50 yrs from now. live for today not tomorrow for tomorrow is not promised to us.
2006-06-22 17:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would divorce him after a year if you didn't love him by then? how about waiting a year and seeing if you love him before you break his heart? girl, you aren't a bimbo, but you are sounding like one anyway. marry for money and you will turn into someone you don't like eventually. if you think of him as a geek, you will eventually be embarassed by him enough to hate him. is that fair? marry for love, just be smart enough to be where you willl meet a nice class of men, so you will find one you love that also will provide a comfortabloe life. don't be selfish and hurt anyone.
2006-06-22 16:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by foxfirevigil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should marry him because you love him, not because he has money. And just because he is smart doesn't mean that your kids will be.
Equal rights are equal rights, they are already pretty equal as it is, and it wouldn't go against it because it is your choice. Which is what most women fought for, the right to choose what they want to do.
2006-06-22 16:56:03 · answer #6 · answered by Rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all due respect, if you marry a man because he is rich, you are selling yourself... aka - prostitution.
You should only marry someone if you meet them and find that the have touched your soul like no other. You cannot imagine another day without them in your life. They complete you.
If this is not the case, do not drag him through the mud. You'll only regret it later...
2006-06-22 16:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at Bill Gates - Rich - But can you love someone for money - if so - Go stand on a street corner - it'll give you some experence - who knows - you might find someone like in pretty woman
2006-06-23 00:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should seriously question your motives for wanting to be with this person...for the very reason you talk about him as both rich and a geek. For a relationship to work and for you to be fair to the guy in question, please don't use him for his money...use the right motives only for a healthy and fulfilling relationship...believe me..money is not everything
2006-06-22 19:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you class him a geek , implies that there's no physical attraction but have sights on his wealth.
If its money that drives you >>> then its your perogative wether to marry.
If you think of bailing out,with the consolation of some $$$$^n
then beware - geeks are not stupid - they may surprise You.
2006-06-22 20:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by Basil P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋