She is my first girlfriend but she makes me feel so amazing. When im spending time with her, it doesn't even matter what we're doing, we could just be just watching TV, and I am still so happy. My question is do you think it is possible for me to love some one at my age. I'm mature for my age but people say teenagers really can't love and I was wondering what some others thought.
2006-06-22 16:40:47 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it's possible. You may very well be in love, and that's wonderful. Unfortunately, at your age, it's not likely to last. These are the years you're learning about the opposite sex a bit, and you're probably "ahead" of most other kids your age. Just enjoy it, but don't think about marriage or anything yet. You have a long way to go before you're ready to be serious about someone. The next ten years will be about you becoming an adult. When you become one, you'll know.
2006-06-22 16:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, you're in love. Isn't that wonderful? Just remember what your parents have taught you. Be kind. Be thoughtful. Be pure. Be caring. Set goals for yourself. Get an education.
Think about how you want to live. Realize that relationships take time. Don't do anything that would hurt you, your girlfriend, or any future children you might have together. Be smart. Expect your girlfriend to be smart. Set boundaries. Use the heart you were given, and use your brain. You're going to be fine.
Follow your conscience and don't forget to use logic to temper your passion. Take it one step at a time. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide you. That's what I always do. It helps me a lot. I have been married 29 years. Is it perfect? No way.
We[re amatuers!!! We've been through a lot. We have forgiven each other a lot.. We're not always nice to each other. We are helping each other make it through this wonderful life. God bless you, and all of the people you love. Behave in ways that will give you no regrets. Remember you're learning. You'll make mistakes. If things don't work out, it just means something else is coming that will be good for you. Be thankful always. You're beautiful!
2006-06-23 00:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by AMELIE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, honey. Your love is probably more pure than the love that a 40 year old has but what you will learn as you age is that your ideas about love will change and you will change too. What made you fall in love at 15 may not make you fall in love at 40. Take this time and enjoy every second of what you are feeling. Those feelings are one of the wonderful joys of life and people as young as you are able to experience a clear and trusting love that may be like no other love you will experience again. Enjoy!
2006-06-22 23:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY. I fell madly in love at about 14 -- enough so that I made a total idiot of myself about this girl.
So I'll tell you the same thing my dad told me when the girl I loved when I was 15 didn't return my feelings:
"People say that you can't really be in love when you're 15, but I know you can. And if anything, I think you feel it more deeply, both the love AND the loss, because you don't have anything to compare it to. The love is more intense because it's new, but sadly the pain is more intense because it's new too."
Remember this, if the relationship ends, and know that some of us out here understand and wish you the best when things are the worst.
Of course, we wish you the best when things are the best, too! And this is one of those times... so enjoy being together.
2006-06-23 01:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by Scott F 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do believe that you can be in love at your age. I'm just a bit older then you and I've been in love. The guy and I are no longer together but I did love him. You will know if you're in love and it sounds like you are, but I don't want you to get your heart broken like I did. I didn't ever tell this guy that I was in love with him and he ended up leaving me. He didn't know how I felt and now he never will. Let the girl know how you feel about her, just don't make it sound like you want to marry her some day. That's just a bit to much for a 15 year old. I hope I helped you!
2006-06-22 23:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by beauty_l?ve_romance 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bro I think we all had a relationship like that around that age and I think you can Love that person but there are a lot of diffrent forms of love and the one your feeling right now is great....for right now. You have to realize that relationships are a dime a dozen and they get better the more you have. And hey maybe after you have a few more you can go back to this girl and make it that much better who knows, but don't put all your eggs in one basket because more likely then not that basket is gonna be dropped. Ry guy
2006-06-22 23:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by ryan o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is certainly possible that you could love this girl; it sounds like, at the very least, you like her an awful lot.
The real test of love is that your happiness will become dependent on her happiness; it won't be possible for you to be happy if she isn't.
That said, at your age, it is more likely that you have a case of like + lust. That doesn't make you a bad person or anything, but consider your feelings carefully and examine them before you decide that this is love.
Best of luck to you and God bless.
2006-06-22 23:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by bobhayes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way you feel is how people of all ages feel when they find someone they are fully compatable with, and things are new, your finding something new you like about them every day, and they feel the same...that feeling is why (i think) many people cheat on spouses...ne way, i got married at 16, and i would have to say that the way you feel about her, if it is love would be better stronger, and more satisfying when you have been together 5-10 years, so while i feel everyone is capable of love at any age, its the brand of love, that makes the difference
2006-06-22 23:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who can really define what love is. I really think it just depends on the person. Only time will tell. What may seem like love now, may not be in the future. And then on the other hand, it could be and in the future this person could be the one. And if not, then maybe one day you will remember this person as your first love.
2006-06-22 23:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by Guru Sharma Prasad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree with that first question. Lust and Love are not the same thing. And there are variants of love. Puppy Love, Infatuation, Unrequited Love, Narsicistic Love, etc. And I don't think any of us can really tell you what you feel. How much you think of her, how your heart beats fast, or what you would think of her as a wife. Drop me an e-mail, I'd love to discuss it more with you!
2006-06-22 23:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋