Im 17 years old.Me and my boyfriend have been together about 8 months. I like him a lot. We havent seen each other in about a month because he stays a distance away from me. But we always talk on the phone everyday for hours.We both also work , and its very hard to meet up. Well me and him made plans week ago to spend some time with each other on this coming Friday because we havent seen each other in so long. I told my mother what we're planning to do and she said it was okay. Now today she tells me that she's going out of town to see one of her friends and she wants me and my sister to go. When the trip is only 45 mintues away. I'm so upset right now because I really wanted to spend sometime with my boyfriend. Has anyone every been in this situaion? Is there anything I can say to her to make her change her mind?
2006-06-22 16:35:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your boyfriends been MIA for a month, sounds like its time to get a new boyfriend.
Basically yes, he is on to new girls. Dont wait around just go nab yourself a new one.
2006-06-22 16:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets see ur 17 and u want to spend some time with ur boyfriend who u haven't seen in a month? Do u really think she's gonna leave u alone to be with him? she may change her mind but u can always ask if he can go with
If she says yes then good, if she says no then may be u better try to let her know that she can trust u and u promise not to do anything she wouldn't want u to do.
2006-06-22 23:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to your mother that you are 17 years old and capable of looking after yourself while she is gone. Assure your mother that you will behave while she is gone. If she still wants you to go, than you will have to go. You could try and make plans with your boyfriend for next weekend if it's possible. I know this is very upsetting now but believe me, there are a lot worse things you could be going through.
2006-06-22 23:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what kind of relationship you have with your mom, but you need to have a candid conversation with her. Ask her why she disapproves. Ask her if she planned this trip as an excuse to take you with her to prevent your plans. You might as well get to the central point now than dancing around the issues and you both worrying and suffering. Lack of communication between you and your mom will weaken your relationship.
2006-06-22 23:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by atmjay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats is so sad,i know how you feel,but i don't think i'll ever meet my Bf,long story.You need to find a way to convence her that you need some time with your Bf like,ask her the Q how would you feel? or, Can't you do this another time?. OR can i stay here so i can spend some time with my Bf?? that might work,i hope this helps.good luck
2006-06-22 23:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, i have many times.... once i had plans w/ my guy... and my dad MADE me go see him b/c it was his week or us (parents devorced) so i had to drop my plans b/c i was forced to go w/ him..... but u may try and say mom i told you i had plans w/ ______ and i would really like to see him b/c we never get the chance to.. w/ work and him living way over there.... and say this will really mean a lot to me if i can stay and spend time w/ him...if she says no she says no... u have to do what ur ma says sry
good luck
2006-06-22 23:44:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit down with your mom and try to be mature about the situation, tell her that you understand what she is feeling and that you do see her point of view she should like that. parents just want to hear sometimes that we are listenning to them even though we dont agree with them! Good luck and dont for get to build a good case for your self
2006-06-22 23:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by scullicious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just make plans for a later day. you can always see your boyfriend and whats on week going to hurt? or stay home and have him come over...if its cool with her.
2006-06-22 23:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by crank 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with Saturday or Sunday!
2006-06-22 23:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Erica T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if u can stay with another family member
2006-06-22 23:38:30 · answer #10 · answered by SEXXYDARKCHOCO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋