me and my bf have been together for a while...some **** went down with me and we took a break for like 3 months then we just started going back out like a monthago...i go to college bout 30 min away from his house...i dont mind driving down there and **** but he only wants to see me 1 time a week because he wants time for his friends, family, and he works too..but is it wrong that he wants to see me onlyone time a week...???maybe im not explainin myself too well because there is a lot of other stuff involved but i need help...email me or something its lilholiday007@yahoo.com
2006-06-22 16:27:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well...this is what it is...i cheated on him with his best friend...it was a big mistake and yes he knows that i extreamly sorry...he still chills with his best friend...actually he hangs out with him more than he hangs out with me...i can understand him not wanting us 2 to come into contact with eachother but what do i do about this?
2006-06-22 16:45:30 · update #1
is it a problem with you?
2006-06-22 16:29:19 · answer #1 · answered by livetotell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are mysterys......Ok i dont know if this is true or not but im guessing hes cheating on you or doesnt have time for u.I mean though,whos boyfriend would want to vist someone for 1 day in a week.Looks like youve took a wrong turn on that high way.Anyway
as i was saying who would spend like 3 days with the family,one with u,an the rest with the buds.Talk him into it.
2006-06-22 16:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is absolutely ok to see him just once a week. That's because like you told, he has dedicate his time for work and his family as well. Staying away for sometime makes both of you get closer and when you meet up, you will have loads to talk about. If you miss him real bad, you can always call him and ask him to call you as well. If its only you who is calling all the time and not him, just think that he's really not into you.
Hope this helps.
2006-06-22 16:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by chinchin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are trying to spend more time with him and he doesn't want to then its not OK but if you haven't said anything then how would he know that 1 day a week isn't OK talk to him try to make him see that you want to see him more then once a week and if that's not OK with him then you guys have other issues
2006-06-22 16:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Damn_Im_Fine 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well in that 3 months what did he have going on ? To me it sounds like he is not that into the relationship. He could be avoiding you while pursing other interest. Have you spoken to him about how you feel or are you just going with the flow ? Sounds weird to me..
2006-06-22 16:43:00 · answer #5 · answered by Rose B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow, well i think that is odd. do u think he has another girl on the side he don't want u to find out about... so he trys to keep his disance? if your his girl he sould want to be w/ u, spend time w/ u.... i don't know y he is like that so the best thing u can do is ask him. what the real reason is???? work ok of course everyone has to work to make a living but friends or his girl??? sould not be to hard to choose...
2006-06-22 16:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mickey 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
he is cheating on u get some one else y would only wan't 2 c u 1 day a week he is cheating
2006-06-22 16:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by Angelina Jolie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, thats not right what you need to do is call him or tell him how ever you can and say is this how much you love me? can't you put somethings down?something that will convence him to spend more time with you,good luck,and best wishes.
2006-06-22 16:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl that s--- dont sound right ,if he is ur boyfreind why only once a week if i was u i would pop up more and see what it is that he is doin that he only has one day a week for u ,u deserve someone that has more time for u then one day a week
2006-06-22 16:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by chell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well holiday,
its common for two ppl to spend way too much time together become obsessed even start to dislike one another more and more. maybe hes trying to prevent the two of you growing tired of each other too soon cuz he really likes you. look at him limiting your time together as a way of saying he enjoys it and doesent want to mess that up. and take this from another female.
2006-06-22 16:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
who's he seeing the other 6 days a week?
2006-06-22 16:30:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋