Why does love hurt?

Because we allow it to hurt us, don't worry it will only get better with time.......now how much time.....well that just depends on YOU!!!

2006-06-22 16:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Love doesn't hurt. It's all the good memories you have and charish. Thats what gets to you the most. You'll remember them for the rest of your life. That's where the hurt comes into play. You'll meet someone again, and fall in love again. Hopefully you may find the person that will love you the right way you deserve.

2006-06-22 16:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by TJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Real love doesn't hurt and if it does evidently it's not real. You can hurt because the dreams and hopes you had with that person isn't going to happen. Take a little time to "hurt" and then be ready for the real thing when it comes along. Good Luck.

2006-06-22 16:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Love hurts because anything worth having comes with a little pain. This makes us appreciate what we have. Love is complicated. The good out weighs the bad, but without the bad we would never truly be grateful to experience the good.

2006-06-22 16:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by just_a_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

because when u love someone although your love may be strong and your feelings never change your partner may not feel the same way. it's not fair but life isn't. people fall in and out of love. and thats when the other girl/boy comes into the picture. and thats when it hurts when u find out that the one u love dosen't love u back. just be patient, love is patient, love is kind, it is not rude it is not self seeking....
don't worry when u find the right person u will know...because the pain will dissappear u will feel like ur sitting on a cloud.
you haven't found love yet..sometimes people have to meet a few bad seeds to be able to know love when they have it and know how to cherish it. it is still yet to come.

2006-06-22 16:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by Pimpin' 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋

I can tell you from experience... I fell head over head for the wrong girl... Blah Blah Blah, she cheated on me and I realized all my sacrifices and all the feelings that I felt for her were one sided... If you truly love someone, you wouldn't cheat... It hurts

Even in a good relationship, there are fights. As a stranger, I could call you ugly and a B****. You wouldn't particularly care. If the person that you loved and shared your life with did that, it would crush you. They are inside of you hence they can hurt you... Another example... You love the dude you are with... A hot young girl comes up and gives him a hug when yall are out... He says she is just a friend... It is probably nothing, but you will feel feelings of maybe insecurity, jealousy, compare yourself with that girl, etc... If you didn't love the guy, it wouldn't do that to you...

2006-06-22 16:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by dudeabides 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋

I find your question refreshing... In todays world people tend to trow each other away like trash.. Most dont know love at all. You seem to know what it is. Just be happy you can feel and have a heart to be hurt. Its ok for your heart to hurt, but you have the control not to let it get broken.. Good luck with this.. God Bless..

2006-06-22 16:35:42 · answer #7 · answered by caring_kindhonest 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋

love does not hurt, love hurts if it is a possesive love, or selfish love.
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

8 Love never fails. 1 Corin 13:4-8

2006-06-22 16:32:57 · answer #8 · answered by raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Hello....LOVE is simply a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness. Now what is so hurtful about that?? Love doesn't hurt, its the people that cause the hurting.

2006-06-22 16:49:25 · answer #9 · answered by Kenya_7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋

That's why it's called love. True love is if we still have strong enough love never gonna change even we are get into hurts, betrayed, have goods and bads conditions...etc.
Most of love must be hurt so much as we love that so much, less hurts if we love less.....

2006-06-22 16:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Love is nothing but a chemical program that tricks you into getting pregnant. Humans are kind of like computerised robots. We are programmed to reproduce and LOVE is the feeling of the driving force of the program. If the program doesn't go through(You dont reproduce with this person), you feel hurt because it's like a robot that was programmed to go left but couldn't because it bumped into a wall.

2006-06-22 16:31:24 · answer #11 · answered by Black Atheist 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋

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