Alrite. So i told the guy i like that i love him. We're not even going out! i met him like 5 days ago. It just slipped. And all he said was Wait What!? like all surprised...And i just hung up. I dont even know why i said it. I dont want things to be awkward between us now. What do i do??? Help. Plz. Someone.
2006-06-22 15:35:36 · 26 answers · asked by short_n_sweet942 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call him back and laugh and say you were just being silly, for some reason you don't know why, it's ok, that he heard you say it, because it will aways be their in his mind.
2006-06-22 15:39:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first things first. look deep inside ur heart and ask urself. do u love this guy? (i mean u met him like for 5 days how can u possibly know this guy) well if yes then u need to call him again and just talk. first just tell him u were sry for hangin up be4. and just work ur way through a conversation willingly enough to say 'i love u'. OR start a conversation and u guys can end up being friends. then when u get to know him more 'hey maybe u mite not like this guy. if u still do then express urself with ur personality so he can see the real U.
then one day he mite be ending up telling u his feelings.
2006-06-22 22:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Ethereal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him back and find out. and thing will not be awkward just boyfriend and girlfriend or closer friends. Since you told him a secert. He was just surprise. You both could be on the date right now. Go get your man, Don't let life past you by. You only live once, how you live it is up to you. Dont let life control you, you control it.
2006-06-22 22:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him up. Tell him "Hey...before, what I really meant was that I really like you. I've been crushing on you a lot....I was just nervous and couldn't think straight. You know how it is when you really like someone!" Then go on and talk about normal stuff. "So, How was that thing you were talking about last week?" Or whatever :-) Fill it in with whatever you were chatting about before.
Then forget about it. He probably will. If you drag it out he'll think you're psycho and want to stay away from you.
2006-06-22 22:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by dancing_in_the_hail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some time you cant tell your heart who to love it tells you if this person is your true love he will feel the same way you do and youll know by your phone calls and your email and you both think of eachother in all that you do and you dream about the future with eachother and when you truly love some one and it is your true love is someone you will trust in all things and most of all you will let eachother be who you are so dont be sorry that you said you love him because if he feels the same way he will let you know but dont rush things it has only been 5 daysand you will know if it is really true love if not keep looking for that one true love because there is a true love for everyone i know i found mine
2006-06-22 22:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him back and just tell him that you are sorry and would like to continue the friendship. If he asks what that was all about, just try to blow it off or say that you meant to express how much he meant to you as a friend, and it came out wrong.
2006-06-22 22:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sudoku Player 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you have to do now is, step back and wait and see if he responds to what you have done. He will either ring you or not. Sometimes we jump the gun and say things when we shouldn't. Just give him time ok If he does like you, he will probably ring. Good luck
2006-06-22 22:39:32 · answer #7 · answered by hugabye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just told me that it just slipped out and that you didnt actually mean it, cause sorry but 5 days is a very short time to tell someone that you love them. Just tell hm that you don;t actually mean it and continue on with your frienship,Good Luck
2006-06-22 22:39:04 · answer #8 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and talk to him...who knows, maybe he really likes you too. The last thing you need is for him to go around telling his buddies rumors about you that arent true, so call him and talk to him!!!! It's an almost a for sure thing that he is interested in talking to you now!!!!
2006-06-22 22:44:09 · answer #9 · answered by jedimasterc2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to call him and explain make something up anything...say you were being held at gunpoint anything just work things out and make it work. If you want to date him tell him. It is always better to tell someone that you want to date them then to not and wonder what could have been
2006-06-22 22:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by maeghan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't panic!! yes, you made a boo-boo, but that is not the end of the world. haven't you heard of the word - "alibis" and "excuses"? there are lots of them! just say, ..."yeah, i love you, just as i love my special friends here in school!" or, "love is such an extensive word... and what do you think?"...
don't let him see that you are as surprised as he is. be calm!! remember, you just said, you love him... you didn't run the street naked!! so you don't have a thing to worry. who knows, you might even see him hitting on you one of these days... cool huh!
goodluck!!
2006-06-22 22:48:09 · answer #11 · answered by Ross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋