He broke up because I was exactly what he was looking for in a woman and he was not ready for that relationship to happen (BS, if you ask me!). He was feeling stuck and feels like he has not been dating around enough to settle down (BS 2).
2006-06-22 15:30:49 · 17 answers · asked by Oh, well! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually depending on how emotionally intense the relationship was defines how long does it take to get over it. Some people handle it fast, some take a while. However I find it nonsense that if you were all that he was looking for, and he ran away from it... then it's really NOT what he's looking for, or he's plain nuts! Nothing against dating though, I guess that my advice would be that if things cannot be worked out by talking as maturely as possible, then there's somebody else better for you out there, and he'll either 1) Regret he found the one thing he was looking for and let her go away or 2) move on and find something that appeals more to his status and condition.
Don't worry about it though, men tend to have that small glitch while they grow up. I did, though now as I'm older and think about it, it was just the thing to happen, and I'm happy as I am these days. :-)
2006-06-22 15:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by cucajoe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He don't deserve you at all. It seems to me as though you have a low standard of self esteem. I know that it will be difficult, especially after you've invested your time, love and support into this relationship. It is always harder on us when we are being dumped than if we were the one doing the dumping.I know his story is BS ,apparently he will come back but don't make back up with him.
The healing process doesn't began until you sincerely ad mitt to yourself that he was never good enough for you and that you deserve someone who wants only you .
To make it easier on yourself try interacting with other activities in your family or school or job. this will avoid you from missing him so much.
2006-06-22 15:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
8 months
2006-06-22 15:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by empresscalls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a sorry excuse 4 a man i have been in a relationship 4 11yrs and believe sometimes i want to kill him but we all have solmates so girl its his loss he was not your soulmate.
2006-06-22 15:47:25 · answer #4 · answered by lonelygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say you should give yourself about half the time you were in the relationship... so about 2 months
2006-06-22 15:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sara K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a whole lot of BS that isnt worth your time spent greiving.
2006-06-22 15:33:46 · answer #6 · answered by ♫! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes 12 beers!
2006-06-22 15:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it took me 4 months to get over a really deep 1month so i have no idea for you...... but yea that is BS... same thing im gettin from a guy im talkin to......
2006-06-22 15:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~Baby D~*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been over it in the time it took to post this question. He sounds like a tosser.
2006-06-22 15:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by zartsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time is up to you and nobody else. Just remember he just made room for mister right to walk into your life. :)
2006-06-22 15:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by dcwannabee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋