How do i get over this guy.....?

Question

I like this guy alot....and he liked me and it was all good, then, like he just.....totally stops talking to me, and when i called he was really short and stuff......whats going on? he's boviously over me for some reason....but i can't seem tog et over him.....he's all i can think about and .....ah.....it's driving me crazy! but like when i ask him whats wrong, or what did i do, he acts liek nothing is wrong and plays dumb. and then sometimes he'll be like all......"Oh i love you so much" and we talk and it's great......! help!

Answer 1

Jus tell him straight out and be 4 real, look him in the eye, and tell him, "Do you like me or not? Tell me now so I won't have to waste my time on you" . Hope it works out

~God bless your soul

Travieza

Answer 2

The problem is the inability to get closure. When someone cuts us off or stops speaking to us with no known reason, we are left wondering "What just happened?" We go through various past encounters in our mind trying to figure out what went wrong because the other person is not communicating. Sometimes, it is impossible to get closure and we must provide it for ourselves in order to move on. One way of doing this is honestly thinking about the relationship without emotion and see what it was based on. Many times, we put more into relationships than what is really there because we want it to be something it's not. Sometimes the other person doesn't know what they want or get scared and back away. Whatever the reason, if you can honestly say that you did the best you could and did not cause anyone harm, then you can let the problem go. It is not your burden to make someone else communicate or interact with you. Look for friendships that are based on mutual respect and kindness. That way, you are not left hanging even if they don't work out in the end.

Answer 3

very easy ,listen i ahve been in this situation before and i was so down and so depressed and i stoped talking to people i know how u feel,
so the best thing u must stop thinking about him ,not easy,isn't it?the only way is when u get to know some one else to keep ur mind busy from him,and that's what happen o me ,after 2 weeks in isolation an depressed , met that girl by chunce and we got closer then i forget the other one
save ur self and stop thinking about him and try to know some one else even online it will work
email me if u want ,u r welcomed

Answer 4

Men are like women and vice versa. There's no rhyme or reason to why people act the way they do. The best thing you can do is stay true to yourself and don't take crap from anybody.

Answer 5

Leave 'em cold, he has to know that you will leave him. He's taking you for granted. Don't nag 'em just let him go, If he's any kinda guy he'll come after you. But if u go after him the ball is in his court.

Answer 6

it sounds like he's just taking your feelings on a ride. he's not accomplishing anything unless he chooses to play mind games with your head. if you don't find a way to get over him that's all he's ever gonna do to you

Answer 7

That's really immature to play with someones emotions like that. let him go, he's seems like he doesnt even know what he wants.

Answer 8

I believe he is seeing someone else and that is why he is probably doing to you. get over him and find someone who likes you for who you are and for the inside and not the outside.

Answer 9

Get another guy, you like another ask the guy out he'd be flattered.

Answer 10

maybe he juss has alot goin on and sometimes needs space... i dunno guys tend to be weird like that alot LOL. juss talk to him bout why he is acting like that.