okay theres this boy i like and i dont know if he likes me. i wanna ask him, but i dont wanna get hurt anymore by him. he might say yes jus to make me feel good and he might say no. either way, im still gonna be hurt. i dont know wat to do about this. he's always on my mind and he's all i think about most of the day. but i know he's not right for me. he lies alot. but i cant help it. it's jus the way he is thats got me so hooked on to him. i think i love him, but im not sure anymore. sometimes i do and sometimes i dont. should i tell him how i feel and see wat he says or should i not even waste my time on him.... i dont know...help me please...and it would be nice if someone would really help me out on this one...my email is smileygirl419@yahoo.com...
2006-06-22 15:27:47 · 19 answers · asked by smileygirl419 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are sprung. you wrote, " but i know he's not right for me. he lies alot. but i cant help it." so he's hot? so he's 'the ladies man? sure. what the f ever. i've seen this 1000 times. i've been there 100 times. and you have to get the f over this man. he's a bad boy for life and you'll be another trophey on his shelf. just another story to tell at the bar before he picks up his next one. if you are smart enough to connect to the internet, you are smart enough to get over this man. if you do him/it once, you'll no longer be his object to be desired. you'll be his object conquered.. stay a mystery. it's so much more fun to smile at him and make him wonder, than to blush and make him proud.
2006-06-22 15:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by beau 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are not wrong for feeling the way you do
but don't tell him anything about your feelings if he likes you alot he should stop whatever he is doing to make you sad and believe me their are more fish in the sea for you so don't waste your time if he liked you then he should be the one to tell you not the other way around
remember that its always the guys that should make the first moves so good luck
your friend
blue butterrly
2006-06-22 15:33:45 · answer #2 · answered by BLUE BUTTERFLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going to help you girl you seem very sprung the boy might even have you wrapped around his little finger. move on why would you want someone who actually doesn't want you or lies to you and we both know that would not be a good relationship to get involved with. get someone you can trust a relationship is all about trust and honesty and he is not the one so move on.
2006-06-22 15:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this does not sound like your true love because true love both people feel the same they both have the same dream they both have eachother on their mind constantly in everything you do thinking of him and him you lots of phone calls and lots of emails and when you are witheachother it would be like a hand fitting a glove and your heart and your heart wil know because when true love hits all is right with the world and if not say senora take it from me i found my one true love after 29 years of a loveless marriage i talk from experience i wish you well and you will find your true love when you least expect it
2006-06-22 15:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It´s a burden to be troubled with free will when in fact we are only slaves to circumstances. So my advice is exercise free will and do exactly what your heart and instincts tell you to do. You already have the answer and your just looking for someone to tell you to do exactly that what you do not want.
2006-06-22 15:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, you are sprung! Go for it-really-what have you got to lose? He's not the only guy you'll ever feel this way about!
2006-06-22 15:30:59 · answer #6 · answered by sophiensamsmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your to good for him. Dont worry about what he thinks, especially if he hurts you before. Move on, there are better guys out there, trust me.
2006-06-22 15:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO IT!!!! If it doesn't work, you might be hurt, but that happens, you will live and get over it. If it does work, congratulations, enjoy.
If you do nothing, you will never know, always wonder, and always regret. Good Luck!!!
2006-06-22 15:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by elross 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems you already know hes not the greatest man...so if you want quick fun with him...hes most likely down with that...but if you want more....dont give him the satisfation of you being short term entertainment for him
2006-06-22 15:32:41 · answer #9 · answered by APOLLO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask me to be your boyfriend...... just kidding
When your bf doesnt care about you why the hell you should you bother about him..
you'll get get a lot of handsome guys than him & better than him.
for more coldflame_g@yahoo.com
2006-06-22 20:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by kissmehard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋