i hate thinking about my boyfriend's past. i know its stupid because the past doesnt matter and whatever, but i cant shake the thoguhts of him being happy, hooking up, and in love with some girl(s) in the past. any words of advice to get over it or just to help deal with these thoguhts?
2006-06-22 15:26:26 · 3 answers · asked by mervelash 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is important to figure out why it is bothering you so much. Sometimes it is hard to think about someone's past when we are worried about whether or not we can trust the person, or when we are worried about their feelings now, or when we feel a little insecure. Maybe it is some of those things or none of them, but whatever it is, don't let the past take away from your happiness with him now. He isn't with those girls anymore, right? He's with you. So enjoy it!
2006-06-22 15:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You jusy have to remember that your boyfriend is with YOU now. he chose you. You shouldn't be worried about the past when you are the right now. None of those other girls are making him happy, or loving him now, it's YOU. be happy. <3
2006-06-22 15:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your havin these feeling now you need to dump him thay will just keep nagin on you and thay will not get any better,I don't think this is the BF for you
2006-06-22 15:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by steelhanger 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋