My 21 year old nephew is getting his little brother(14) high. Should I tell my sister or just let her find out on her own?
2006-06-22 15:26:00 · 20 answers · asked by Crystal L 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
TELL HER! Because if she ever finds out you knew and didn't say anything, she'll hate you. Plus, even if she gets mad that you are in their business, at least you won't feel guilty and you'll never have to wonder what woulda happened if you never told her. Hope this helps.
Good luck and God bless...
2006-06-22 15:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jacqui 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have two fourteen year olds and if my sister knew something like this and did not tell me I would never forgive her.
Tell her, but do it in front of the the 21 year old and 14 year old. That way there is no he said, she said. Your sister may be mad at first but will get over it. Maybe you could give the 21 year old a chance to confess... but if he knows, you know, you have to tell. Somehow it will come out and when it does she will even be more mad that you didnt tell her. Good luck!
And by the way.... someone got my boys high and they confessed to me because it scared them. This 14 year old nephew will only end up doing more and get himself in trouble. The 21 year old should be ashamed and if you dont tell you should too!!!! I dont mean that rude, just dont make yourself sick worring about it.....let the parents handle it! Again... good luck!
2006-06-22 23:00:01 · answer #2 · answered by Rootay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that it is hard, you have to tell your sister. the 21 year old may already be a waste. don't let him ruin his brother's life. the 14 year old wants him brother to accept him, so he will do what he does. you must put an end to it.
2006-06-22 22:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by merc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister ASAP !!!!! No offence but that is very stupid of your 21 yr old nephew to do that to his younger brother. Tell your sister if you dont want them both to get hurt.
2006-06-22 22:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by ♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell!!!1
2006-06-23 03:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by charleedude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough situation to be in. For the sake of the 14-year-old, you ought to say something to his mother. My son went through a difficult episode with drugs and I believe the sooner the issue is addressed, the better.
2006-06-22 22:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER!! It is not fair that the older brother be so influential on his younger brother when it comes to a bad thing. Older brothers are suppossed to be good role models and it does not sound like this is the case.
Your sister needs to know so that she can decide what needs to be done.
2006-06-22 23:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her, she is eventually going to find out and then if she finds out that you new about it all along then she may somehow blame you or at least be mad at you that you didnt tell her. Also if something happens that to boy when he is high then you are going to blame yourself and wish that you would have said something.
2006-06-22 22:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And by the time she finds out on her own he could die of an overdose. Do unto others.
2006-06-22 22:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Lonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u should defianantly tell her b/c 21 is way old enough to know right 4rm wrong
2006-06-22 23:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋