why dont people just except you for you no matter what religion skin hair or clothes?

Question

people have been saying rude things to me on this so this is my last question to you people i dotn say mean things to u unless you say them to me :-)

im not talkin about god or jesus i mean the people that i live with or the people around me i listen to god and read the bible every day and i kno that they accept me but i want to kno why other people dont by the way i kno how to spell im just in a hurry

Answer 1

I AGREE I AM GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING WITH MY SISTER SHES ALWAYS JUDGING ME SAYING THAT I DONT CARE ABOUT HER I HAVE ACCEPTED HER BUT SHE DOESNT SEEM TO ACCEPT ME FOR ME... ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT THEY JUST DO BUT IT DOESNT MAKE THEM RIGHT JUST PRAY FOR THEM TO UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL .. TELL THEM HOW YOU FEEL... I HAVE DONE THAT TO MY SISTER UNFORTUNATELY ITS NOT WORKED WHEN I HAVE TOLD HER HOW SHE MAKES ME FEEL... BUT WITH PRAYERWARDS THOSE PPL WHO DONT EXCEPT YOU... JUST PRAY... FOR UNDERSTANDING AND JUST BE PATIENT THATS WHAT I HAVE BEEN DOING WITH MY SISTER..

Answer 2

No matter how nice you are, how friendly, the gifts you give out, the funny stories you tell, and the laughs you made; you will come along people who just wont like you and accept you for who you are. It happens everywhere. I try to impress people all the time by just being friendly but no matter how hard I try, someone will be rude to me. Just remember this, everyone was raised differently. Therefore, people are going to be different. If someone comes from living broke with a single mom not being able to travel, than that person might not be the nicest thing to you when they find out you come from the superbs drive your own car and get your parents money all the time. You get a variety in life. You will meet the most generous and kind-hearted people, and you will meet some that will stab you in the back right when you turn around. You just have to ignore the a**holes and realize that no matter what u say or do, you will come across them.

Answer 3

People being rude is inexcusable on the internet but it reflects that they themselves are superficial people. It is easy to give rude and stupid answers when an intelligent thought would perhaps help or solve a problem. I am a minority of one in a city of 20,000 people in a country where I am a tiny fraction of a decimal point. My skin, my race, my hair make me very obvious and I have had to work hard to fit in. So I understand your question very well. But I turned it around. I am now well-known, respected and held in high regard by my peers because I put up with the stuff you face. (I am an American, blonde-haired, blue eyed living in China). I took steps to make me belong to their world. Perhaps this is an answer. However don't stop asking questions. You have to put up with glib answers from thoughtless people who don't care a bit about you, but there are many others that do care and will help. But don't respond to their baiting...in short, if they are rude, ignore them. There are many friendly people that count.

Answer 4

Because many people think they are "greater" than the rest.
Don't sink to their level.
As long as you can sleep at night and look in the mirror with no shame of how you have treated others today, you are doing just fine.
Wear what you want, believe what you want.
And if someone says rude things to you, tell them you are sorry that is all they have to do and just move along. Then try to smile sincerely.
BE THE LOVE YOU SEEK

Answer 5

Human nature.

Years ago, studies were done with kindergarden and preschool children. They watch as they placed chilkdren (all unknown to each other) and watched who they gravitated toward and whom they rejected. It showed most kids were drawn toward who looked like them the most. Blonds to blonds, tall kids to tall kids etc...

Human Nature.

After that, it could be upbringing etc..

You seem the type that would dress up real wierd with spiked hair and the whole nine yards and then dare anyone to even glance at you. Then Blame everyone for hating you because the way you look.

One last point. This system does come with a spell checker.

Answer 6

I can't speak for the specific people in your life, but in my experience, it is hard for humans to accept other humans simply because pride, jealousy and envy are so prevalent in our world.

I am so sorry that some insensitive people have been rude and have hurt you at Yahoo! Answers. It would be a joy to have them answer intelligently and thoughtfully, but they don't.

Just know that there are a lot of people who value you. I don't know you outside of this questions, but I am glad you posted your question. I enjoy the honest questions, the questions that challenge my belief system and make me think.

Being rude and disrespectful is unacceptable.

Answer 7

You read your Bible and believe in Jesus. Jesus's own people(Jewish) didn't except him. That's why the Bible states that you are in this world and not of it. We all go threw similar things. My family doesn't expect me but the good thing is GOD excepts you. Greater is HE THAT IS IN YOU then he that is in the world. Keep reading your Bible and continue to pray GOD has something special for you to do for HIM

I'll be praying for you and GOD bless

Answer 8

I myself have not said anything mean to you , and do not plan on doing so . don't let the mean things that people say get you down. some people are just mean to everyone , and that is just how they are . so smile and keep asking questions , if someone says something mean , just smile and go on , God Bless and have a good evening

Answer 9

I like your question because it shows you are a deeply sensitive caring person. We learn hate from those around us and pass it around because we feel insecure about ourselves. We also make 'laws' for ourselves that only people like ourselves are good or kind. Our government shows how 'bad' our enemies are so we do not question our attacking them. We try to de-humanize others so we will accept the horrid things we do to one another.

The sad thing is that, we are all human species here. The prophets said good things and our governments twist their intentions and tell us that we are not all from One Source.

We are all of us put here for a purpose and that purpose is to grow in understanding and love. When those are cruel to them, consider their unenlightened state and pray for them,meditate for them...in whatever manner you choose. When people are kind to you, think about it and revel in it. Absorb it. The power of good is a lot better stronger than the power of evil. The power of evil is attracted to, and wants to destroy good, so consider yourself on the right side of things. Being good, you have protection, you just have to find it within yourself and use it to deflect you from those of a lower state of being, than yourself.

Answer 10

Ignore them....Rudeness is their problem and they have to live with themselves. A slogan to remember is: 'your opinion of me is none of my business'. Keep writing. Don't let the ignorant deprive you of pleasure. No one can really know who they are helping and no question asked in honesty is dumb. That's the only way we are going to learn and expand our minds, get others views. We can keep what we like and discard the garbage. It's a fact of life that there are people who are mean for the sake of being mean. Don't let them control you!

Answer 11

people say rude things to you because they think its okay i wont say rude things to you because i dont know you i cant be rude because i have no reason to be just like you said you dont say mean things to people unless they say them to you the best advice is to stay away from those who are rude to you join in positvie cliques or groups, but no matter what you will see negative people they are all around you as a person you just have to ignore them and they wont bother you