How Can I show a girl that i'm really mature. I know I make joke out of everything but people around laught deeply. I want to add maturity to my life so i can show her I'm ready to date.
2006-06-22 15:22:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 17 and a hlaf years old but attending summer school in college and just grad.
2006-06-22 15:49:32 · update #1
cracking jokes all the time doesn't mean you're not mature (unless your jokes are immature themselves). As long as you take responsibility for your actions, I think you should be all set.
2006-06-22 15:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by rice kid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think alot of it deals with listening and knowing when to joke. You have to be able to read her and know when she's in a joking mood or not. I had a boyfriend who joked about something even when the topic was serious. Although the joke was funny, I really wanted to make my point clear but when he joked it made me feel that he wasn't interested in what I was saying. A mature person is a good listener. You have to learn how to not be the center of attention all the time. Because you're funny, you probably are used to being the center of attention. A mature person will allow someone else to have it even if they have to hold back their funny jokes because they would want to listen to what others have to say and give feedback that is actually helpful instead of jokes.
2006-06-25 01:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by grlnxtdoor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and how old are you????? If you are over 18 that is a sad question to have to ask but.... to show a girl that you are mature all you have to do is act like an adult don't horse around infront of her, don't burp really loud on purpose infront of her.... don't fart infront of her on purpose and don't act like a two year old.... don't make rude comments about other people b/c then she will think that you do the same thing to her behind her back, wash your close after a day of wearing them, brush your teeth and if she ever comes over make sure your house is spotless... I hope thats good enough.... ummm oh and don't complain....good luck
2006-06-22 22:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by Chaysee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maturity can be shown in how you make decisions and how well you carry yourself in front of every1 -- with confidence. even if you are funny, make jokes a lot... that doesn't mean that you are immature. however, perhaps, you have to have good timing with the jokes. you don't have to joke everytime... personally, i'd like a funny guy over one who is extremely trying hard to look mature but is isn't.
2006-06-22 22:32:10 · answer #4 · answered by Jade101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jon Jon, dont worry so much. You're maturity will develop in a few years. Just like the rest of your body!
2006-06-22 22:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋