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2006-06-22 15:13:43 · 19 answers · asked by TJ 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

19 answers

It depends how you define win and what it is you are winning.

Being nice makes us feel like a loser because we're taken advantage of. Maybe you're missing the point, we may have lost, but we won in some other way.

I don't think the good girls out there would go for bad guys. I don't think cheating gets you anywhere in the end.

Good guys win the real battles. Good nice guys win the girl. Nice guys win in life.

Unless you're nice guy, you're winning the wrong battle. In short, only nice guys win the right battle.

2006-06-22 15:36:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 2 5

Nice Guys Never Win

2016-10-18 03:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Good Guys Never Win

2017-01-01 08:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

The reason nice guys finish last because women need to be kept on their toes. If you are purely nice you are only catering to one side of the brain. This is what you do. . . with out being mean you can give her the same desired effect by simply correcting her on ( at least a strong hinting at)every mistake she makes. Stick with this and see where it takes you. At least she will feel that you are truly honest , and she might believe the way you say you feel when you say nice things. if you are honest in both ways (corrections, things that annoy you) You won't be the nice guy finishing last. There are many other ways to give her the abuse that she craves. The secret to it is timing. You have to LISTEN for her cues, She will test you and try to insult you above your head. If you miss it she will think you heard it and are too timid to respond. If she thinks you did miss it, she will try a few more times to insult you to get a reaction. If you miss the cues she probably won't respect you. You being a " nice guy" I am assuming that you are a very good listener. Now you know to look for these patterns everything else should be easy. Once you have realize that she has insulted you. It should be really easy to muster up enough attitude that she requires at this point in time. With out going over the edge, Try your hardest within to slip an insult in with the same amount of slyness she used. This might be hard at first. Girls like to play this game. You will get better as time goes by. Some girls you will meet who you are naturally better than. Good luck.

2016-03-17 22:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

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2015-08-07 21:57:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy 1 · 0 0

it depend on what u do if it about a girl, she does not know what she is missing. U might not win now but in the end u will be that winner. Your niceness will pay off, continue being nice dont stop.

2006-06-22 15:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by nclsmpsn 1 · 3 0

Because girls like guys that dont seem available...whether its emotionally, mentally, or actually...girls like things they cant get...nice guys are too predictable...for one they are nice..you dont have to figure them out...they are always there when you need them...and all the things that nice guys lack are what build attraction in women...the fact that they usually arent mysterious and nice...makes it so the women doesnt have to think about tehm..and half of a women falling for you is when she has to think about you...when she has to wonder if you like her...or has to go to her g/f's to see what a certain gesture meant...when she calls and you dont call her back..but your really flirtatious when you are aroudn her...all that type of stuff builds attraction because she wants you but she cant figure you out....nice guys usually just have to stick it out...atleast thats what Im hoping...I hear women grow out of that and they eventually start do looking for the guy they want to marry...but just for being in college or high school...be confident or overly confident...doesnt really matter..and just flirt...make it so the girl is trying to figure you out...and let me tell you taht drives girls insane..an ****** that seems like hes good on the inside, girls cant get enough of those because they think they can change them.

2006-06-22 15:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by rdbowles12390 3 · 2 1

Most women grow up looking for the bad boys because they seem to be more fun at first.... Eventually though, nice boys are the ones who treat you better.... we just cant seem to figure that out... Maybe because you are not as aggressive as getting our attention or making us look your way... All in all, from both sides, the nices ones always get shafted.

2006-06-22 15:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 2

Women are so accustom to the bad boy image, a good guy scares them cause they don't know what to expect.

2006-06-22 15:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by American Pride 3 · 2 0

i'm a nice guy and i win, i've out smarted and out witted the bad guys.

2006-06-22 15:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by Mark T 2 · 3 0

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