Why do the men I sleep with always hint that they want to have anal sex? What is so special about it?
2006-06-22 14:58:34 · 13 answers · asked by Houston Honey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's so special about it is that very few women will do it. It's rare, so it becomes special, and guys think that women who are willing to do it are sexier/more willing than women who aren't. (That's also why there's a lot of it in porn movies: guys like looking at something they've never personally been able to do.)
As for why so few women will do it, some people think it's icky, some have never had the nerve to try it, some people have tried it with a skilled partner but decided they just didn't like it, and quite a lot have tried it with someone who didn't know what they were doing, so it hurt, so they don't want to do it again. (If you are going to try it, find out all you can about it, do it with someone you can trust, do lots of foreplay in that area, take it very slow until you get into it, and use lots of thick lubricant. Otherwise it will hurt, probably a lot.)
2006-06-22 15:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, I have never been interested in nor will I ever be interested in anal sex. I can only wonder why in the world anybody would want to put something or have something put in an area of your body where you defacate, in other words, just took a dump. I simply don't understand the concept and have no desire to understand it. My suggestion is that if you don't want to have to anal sex and your not interested in anal sex, don't do it, but if you're curious and want to know more about it, the choice is yours. I'm a firm believer in the freedom of choice. I know I couldn't and wouldn't do it regardless of how good someone may have told me it might be.
2006-06-22 22:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Oscar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you got a nice badounk-a-dounk (yeeeeeeeeeeaaaah) but for real I never was really interested in trying that. I prefer not to have a "doo stick" when it is over, know what I mean..
2006-06-22 22:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by M.A.T. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a place they never probably got to put it in,so when they do they know they have had all entries in a girl.Most girls don't even go there if they do then they know they hit jackpot.
2006-06-22 23:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by identityhopeless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they only 'hint' ?? Don't they just grab you and go at it ? ukh !! ok I am kiddin ..hey guys like the tight back door.. Plus I think it's a dominance thing.. Go Figure !
I sure do..
2006-06-22 22:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by JimmyJaan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't help ya there honey. It's never appealed to me. The butt hole is an exit, not an entry.
2006-06-22 22:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good question. I never wanted it because it never appealed to me.
2006-06-22 22:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
'Cause the majority of straight men have never done it.
2006-06-22 22:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by catmanbigwil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't get pregnant
2006-06-22 22:01:26 · answer #9 · answered by TRABCO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have a nice butt.
2006-06-22 22:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by Milo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋