ok im in love with this guy and he says that he loves me too. so his leaving to santa fe with his dad and wants to live there for a year but i want to be with him and he asked me if he could stay or not so what should i tell him but i really love him?????????
2006-06-22 14:57:41 · 8 answers · asked by la big flirt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Prove it. I find that love and long distance dont work out. If you love him and prove it by fire, aka long distance relationship, then that is love and should be cherished. If either of you cannot last the time, well, it wasnt meant to be.
2006-06-22 15:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by RuneMage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's totally a decision that you need to make together.How about giving it a trial run???Talk to his dad and see if things get to the point that it wont work between you two or you need a break from each other, since it is a new relationship and you still need to get to know each other, could he come to stay with his dad again.Maybe this will leave you the freedom to try it without putting the pressure on you.
2006-06-22 15:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard ,i suppose u know u love him but are you ready to move what is there in santa fe for you besides him, like is good for work and that. just remember if you choose to stay relationships are hard if ur looking at that way. hope ot all works out..
2006-06-22 15:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by sugarpantsangel21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under 21 and still in school, you can't do anything. Even if you are working and independent, one year away is too short for you to do much permanently. I don't see the point of quiting and moving there to be with him....it's only one year. Where will be go next? Are you going to follow him everywhere without being married to him?
2006-06-22 15:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why is he leaving you behind
if you guys really love each other then you can hold out for a year
trust me it works to know if its really love or not
tell him how you feel and if he has no choice but to leave then you cannot stop him and just talk to him see how he feels also so you won't be alone in this moment
your friend
bllue butterfly
2006-06-22 15:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by BLUE BUTTERFLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh??
uhm go with him, or wait for him to come back.
2006-06-22 15:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey - if you love him, do what your heart tells you. Just make sure he isn't using you...............
2006-06-22 15:00:40 · answer #7 · answered by Troy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should let him do wat he really wants to do... u can always see him on holidays and stuff...
2006-06-22 15:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by angelchic1706 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋