i have try to tell him that i do not want to have sex with him unless he wear a condom and he will not listening to me; i think we need to talk to a counsel
2006-06-22 14:51:50 · 14 answers · asked by angela g 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
Does he know that you have herpes? He's such a freak in the bad sense.
2006-06-22 14:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must want to share everything with you good and bad. You are being responsible. He is not. Don't have sex with him unless he wears a condom.
2006-06-22 14:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by karen wonderful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Herpes can be communicated by you to your boyfriend even when you aren't having an outbreak. Your best bet is to use a condom whenever engaging in any kind of sexual contact. Please visit your doctor with your boyfriend so he can get more information, and hopefully this will help.
2006-06-22 14:58:14 · answer #3 · answered by grad gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i became in a LTR with a guy that had Herpes. As time went on we stopped utilising protection yet have been very careful. He took his meds and each time he even had a tingle we abstained. We have been at the same time for 4 years and that i on no account have been given it. you purely might desire to be very careful and not take opportunities in case you sense such as you have a aptitude up.
2016-12-09 00:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No condom, no sex. Will he agree to counselling? Else he needs a good nudge!
2006-06-22 15:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by natsubee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you explained to him that you have herpes? If you have and he still is choosing to have unprotected sex with you, I think you should have him go to the doctor with you so that the doc can explain to him how painful it can be, and so that he can understand that it is something he will have for the rest of his life. Maybe that will knock some sense into him. I think it's good that you want to be responsible about your s.t.d..
I applaud you for having the courage to seek help with this matter!!
Best wishes! :)
2006-06-22 15:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by bettywitdabigbooty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he sure does need someone else to tell him that it is super contagious and if he dosn't he will have to live with it too and since there is no cure he will have to take medicine, go to the doctor and deal with it his entire life and if that dosn't scare him into wearing one it might scare him to leave but he must love you so he might think twice about it.
2006-06-22 14:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by mrssainsarg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just nasty if he won't wear a condom when sleeping with an infected person. You should dump him.
2006-06-22 14:55:36 · answer #8 · answered by southerngirl84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he knows that you have this STD, then he is stupid for not wanting to wear a condom. even if he has it too, you can get pregnant with a lot of complications.
2006-06-22 14:54:59 · answer #9 · answered by Honey83 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it won't just be your problem then,but if he won't wear a condom what else has he picked up along the way ?
2006-06-22 14:56:35 · answer #10 · answered by clueless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋