Since we had some problems, I sent email to my boy f who is currently living far away, which was about my decision (break or couple) and asked for his decision. Then, I haven't got his reply for 10 days!!! I am thinking of 3 contexts:
- His silence means breaking.
- He currently has some business troubles. If he wanna solve love trouble after finishing his business troubles, why doesn't he drop some words like : " i am very busy now, we can talk about it later".
What is he really thinking? What should I do?
Note: pls don't advise me to call him.
2006-06-22 14:46:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Quit being depressed. This much you can control. Never put your life on hold for a man, unless your engaged or married to him. Always make sure you have a safety net. As far as what he thinks and who he is, it is hard to know what's going thru that head of his. I don't even want to guess, because I don't think anything is going to help you until you talk to him. So lets address you. He is far away, you need to get out and have some good clean fun. Call your friends. Go to dinner or a movie, the mall, what eve it takes to get your mind off him for now. If you don't want to call him, then there is nothing to do but wait for him to call you. But don't stop your life. This will also make time go by faste. I hope you the very best from this outcome. Remember, there is only one person in this world you can "really" count on,...and that is you. So don't let yourself down, and keep your heart safe.
2006-06-22 15:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend the next 3 days thinking only about what you woudl be like if your guy wanted nothing to do you.... if ALL of your friends decided to dump you, and if your family was gone.
If you can get to a point where you would still love yourself even if nobody else did, then you will be string nough for a healthy relationship and would not be worried about some guy responding to an email. Seriously -- work on yourself so that you could get to a point where you don't need anyone else, you instead choose to love other people simply because of who they are (not how they make you feel about yourself b/cyou are already fine with yourself).
Spend some time also doing things that impress YOU and it will be easier to survive the days imagining that everything would still be OK and life would be great if NOBODY loved you. :)
2006-06-22 22:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Finnale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go.the fact that you gave him an altimatum and he decided to break instead of making a commitment, should have answered your questions there.But yet, you email him and ask again and still nothing.Why are you sitting at home, crying over something that wasn't meant to be, instead of out there meeting new friends and after time, possibly starting a new relationship and going on with your life.You are selling yourself short waiting on someone who should have, at the least, sent you an email saying something/anything.LET HIM GO!!!Life is tooo short.If you would die in a car accident tomm, would this be how you would have wanted to spend the last of your days??Mopping over some guy when theres more, nicer ones out there....waiting on the perfect girl like u????
2006-06-22 22:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it takes a bit of time to get a answer from a guy on that subject because it in the end could mean that you get to spend the rest of your life with someone and what makes this a problem is that you have already been with them and you know what you don't like about them also guys have a primal instinct to breed with as many as possible there is not much we can do about it because it is embedded is us before birth so the best thing i can say is to wait 10 more days and if no call then go hit the bar, drink till you can't remember his name, and don't whatever you do call him when you are drunk because that kind of thing leads to just a booty call and the lack of respect
2006-06-22 21:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you are depressed, but analyze if you have this symptoms:
1. Lack of pleasure in everything you like and use to do.
2. Lack of energy.
3. You cry with no reason.
4. Imsomnia or sleep too much.
5. Eat too little or too much.
6. Feel too sad and empty.
7. Moody.
8. Suicide thoughts.
If you have 3 or more symptoms then you are depressed. I advice you to give him time to call you. If he doesn't call you, obviously doesn't love you. Forget him. It won't be your last man.
Meanwhile, try to keep yourself busy, go shopping, work, go to the
movies with your friend etc.
2006-06-22 22:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda L. T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it depends on the "problems" you had which brought you to the point of having to make a decision. What was the last communication you had with him and what did he say then? That might shed some light on his thought process.
2006-06-22 21:57:46 · answer #6 · answered by scorpioinlimbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the dude alone, maybe he has a really big problem that he needs to sort out right now give him some space. Its a caveman thing. When my husband gets in this mood, we have sex, it helps him, release stress, and I feel loved!!!
2006-06-22 21:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by admyr75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick up the damn phone & get help & stop whining. U are going to have bigger problems than this in your life. Make yourself happy! Think
about helping someone else who is worse off than you & u won't have time to be depressed.
2006-06-22 22:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Lonnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think he is depressed and sitting waiting on you. (no). take some time for your self, an then move on. he is enjoying himself and selfish. so now it is your turn to be selfish. love yourself and pray for him. actually thank him for not calling. he has opened the door for the right man for you.
2006-06-22 22:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by cmac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he didn't get your email, send him another and tell him you would really like a response.
2006-06-22 21:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by 2¢ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋