what are som things I could talk about as casual chat on a first date? nothing too deep please...
2006-06-22 14:41:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The basics ... about his family, his siblings if he has them, thinks he thinks are important in life, any specific goals he has in life. These are the things you try and learn about someone in the beginning to help make a decision if they're right for you or not.
2006-06-22 14:45:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be natural! Men like girls at their most naturals. Your instinct will prompt you what you shouldn't say on a first date. If you really need a guide, just start with the outer circle - talk about both party's school / work / activities / songs / movies / food! Actually it's just anything u're comfortable with.
u can relate to some food/place u've always longed to try.. hint for him for a 2nd date.
My personal advice (having countless of 1st dates, hehe..) dun wear too revealing, i nv like to give them the wrong idea for wooing. Make sure they're more hooked to your character first, other things can wait when we're stable.
2006-06-22 21:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny things, keep it light. Talk about Cars you like, Bungee jumping, anything fun. Do you fish? What kind of music,dancing, movies. How about that weather.!! Don't focus on bragging, don't tell your inner most secrets and don't gossip. Oh and don't try to make him feel like a god, like it's all about him. He's got to show you a good time too. Relax and have fun !! No Sex, if Your just starting to date, you are too inexperienced to focus on something that is way out of your league. There are more important things in life !!!!
2006-06-22 21:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by wilburkee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your job. What he does - what you do. College.
I feel conversation should come naturally and freely with someone you choose to spend time with. If you think about it too much - your mind will be overwhelmed with what everyone has told you to talk about. Just be yourself and talk about simple things. Sharing and talking should come naturally....Just think of him in your mind as a friend you are getting to know. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.
2006-06-22 21:45:48 · answer #4 · answered by Mekayla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where you grew up, music, sports, hobbies, fashion, movies, favorite vacation spots, books, there's tons of things without getting too deep.
2006-06-22 21:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by itsme! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His favorite foods, his family, his schooling, his friends, his best and worst times in school, things like that normally arent considered too deep.
2006-06-22 21:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask questions you actually want to know...if the guys into sports talk about the heat winning the finals or carolina winning the stanley cup...he'll be impressed
2006-06-22 21:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by esuhornet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us guys like love talk about sports and if his a teen well video games as well but don't bored him with your life keep it short and sweet that's how we like it talk about funny shows too and stuff like that
2006-06-22 21:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by Big Boss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Movies that are popular.... ideas for entertainment... and what attracted you to your date and vice versa.
2006-06-22 21:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by budgieducko23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
travel, favorite things, music, common interests
stuff like that
2006-06-22 21:44:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋