Any ideas???

Question

I recently met this really nice guy. I haven't had a relationship for almost 2 years (got really burned last time) and I finally met someone I would like to get to know better, eventhough I am scared of getting hurt again. I've gone out with him a couple times and it has been a blast. It seems I have forgotten how to get to know someone new. Any ideas on how I can make better conversation to get to know him, like questions to ask? I am kind of shy but I want to get to know him better. This is a pretty scary move for me but I want to take the chance.

Also, how do you play it cool so he doesn't actually know you are really into him. I don't want scare him off, but I can't stop thinking about him. I don't call him, he calls me. I don't want to obsess about him but when I think of him it just makes me smile.

Thanks for the help.

Answer 1

Just be yourself. If someone doesn't like you for who you are, then don't waste your time. Do you really want to pretend to be someone else for as long as you're with that person? Do whatever comes naturally to you.

Answer 2

Tip #1 : guys dont scare easily, take the chance.
Tip #2 : you need to get over getting burned by one guy, there are 3,000,000,000+ guys on Earth, thats only one, just get over getting hurt and i promise it will help you out in the end
Tip #3 : Be straight forward with guys, playing it cool will only confuse them, if your straight forward and tell them exactly what you feel, you will probably get something good out of it.

Answer 3

Well I have had a similar problem.. Some questions that you could ask may be like, what is his favorite thing to do, what is his favorite sport, what is his favorite color, all that jazz. Just easy things that you may have incommon with him...

The way to play it cool is basically just do what you are doing, let him call you (just make sure that you don't answer right away). Just act normal around him....

Good Luck!!!! :D

Answer 4

Well don't worry about playing it safe and you will come true and don't lead him on
don't tell him alot about yourself let him ask you
you know he can ask a question and then you can ask a question and just give a little compliment
{not a big one like wow i really like you}
and don't be afraid to show him how you really are
your friend
blue butterfly

Answer 5

Just be you. Listen to what he is saying when your talking. This will give you the idea's what to ask further about things he likes or who he is, and where he is going in life. Best of all, just bask in this newly found relationship. Enjoy, be happy, and treasure every moment. Any one that can make us "smile" is definitely a keeper. :)

Answer 6

Just be yourself! Don't be someone your not to try and impress him. If he keeps calling you ... he must like you alot as well!