this girl i like is really sweet and nice and funny and but idk how to tell her i want to be more than friends. i am worried shell say no.
2006-06-22 14:10:06 · 6 answers · asked by dj92jr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well..as much as it hurts, rejection is part of our life. Anyway, did she show you ANY signs that she might like you? Like staring, trying to get close to you, being super nice to you, smiles at you, laughs at your jokes (even at the not-so-funny ones), and things like that. But even if she doesn't show those signs, you should tell her that you like her. Maybe she'll start to get more interesting in you. Believe me, every girl likes it when a guy tells her that he likes her. I started to develop a crush on a guy that i initially didn't really like when his friends told me that he likes me. So, really, you should tell her. She might say "no," in that case, offer to be her friend, and who knows, maybe little by little, she start to like you. Hopefully she'll say "yes". Good luck! =)
2006-06-22 14:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by dolphinlover 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about the NO...u will never get ANYTHING done if you are afraid of the NO just tell her that u like her...take her for a walk on the beach as friends ...sit down somewhere on the beach where u are alone...and ask her " Do you know y i am bring you here tonight?" and tell her " Because i wanted to say that i love and i want to be mor ethen friends" simple as that.
2006-06-22 14:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by Chinaman0389 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a letter if your shy, sometimes...when your not sure what to say write it down. I do it all the time, sometimes its easier to put your feelings on paper rather than speak them...seems a little ol fashion, but it works. IF you don't ever try you will never know!
2006-06-22 14:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is to test the water. to do this, u could take her out somewhere, just as friends, and see what happens then. if it seems that there is chemistry, then talk to her about how you feel. make sure you do it in private to find out what her feelings are. that would be best.
2006-06-22 14:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by implady500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well does she show signes of likeing you? if so then ask but if not then dont ask other wise ull get what you are afraid of witch is a "no"
2006-06-22 14:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't spend your life worrying. go for it before she becomes taken by another guy. good luck! and please just go for it!!!
2006-06-22 14:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋