I no longer live with my family, but when I did my life was a literal he**. My stepmother (who has two "perfect" daughters of her own), was a tyrant. When my dad and her got married I went through the normal problems a young girl recently estranged from her mother and forced to accept someone new as her mother would go through. As punishment for this my stepmother would lock me in my room and take away all entertainment. When I turned 12 she sent me away to a boarding school and I was moved around from school to school away from my family until I was 18. I only saw my dad 4 times through all of those years. Now that I have been liberated my stepmother will not allow me to contact my dad to tell him my new number or anything (she intercepts his e-mails and mail from me). I know she is only with him for his money and she even made him get better life insurance! How do you all suggest I get in contact with him? I am out of ideas, I have tried everything.
2006-06-22 13:47:41 · 8 answers · asked by hh4pres 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
We live in different states.
2006-06-22 14:02:06 · update #1
WE LIVE IN DIFFERENT STATES!!!!
2006-06-22 14:32:58 · update #2
Time to grieve little one. Your stepmother has him forever. You represent his ex-wife and that life. She has successfully put her daughters in your place.
Your only option is to stalk your Dad and then find out when and where he is without her. Maybe your step mom threatened to take all that he has in a brutal divorce based on lies.
2006-06-22 13:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Just show up somewhere where he'd be. Or have somebody who is in contact with your dad get at least the phone number to him.
2006-06-22 14:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by TampaTaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
majority of the responsibilities lies with your father!! He should take the initiative to contact you wihtout the harassment of your step mom. no matter...does he work is there a place he go by himself? Check out his routine...perhaps talk to his coworkers or friends that he 's in touch with on the daily basis....
2006-06-22 14:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by sstooc2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
knock on his front door and talk to him or show up at his job and talk to him and remember your stepmother cannot do anything your father will not allow her to do,when it comes to interfering in his life, he is an adult and no one can keep someone's child away from them without allowing it to happen
2006-06-22 13:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a cell phone number? Do you know it? Anyway you can call him at his work? Contact him when she's not around somehow??
2006-06-23 11:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GURL U R 18YEARS OLD I WOULD GO TO THERE HOUSE AND IF SHE ANSWER THE DOOR I WOULD BEAT THE S**T OUT OF HER AND BUST THE OPEN AND TELL MY DAD ABOUT HIS SO CALLED WIFE
2006-06-22 13:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by mz.cheri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY STEP MOTHER WOULDNT EVEN LET ME HUG MY DAD IF IM CAUGHT DOING THAT SHE WOULD YELL AT FOR HHOURS,
ONE OF THE SICKENING WORDS WERE"ARE YOU MARRIED TOO HIM?!"
OR..."YOU ARE VERY STUPID TO DO THAT....YOU SHOULD HIDE YOUR EMOTIONAL FEELINGES!!!IT IS VERY FOOLISH TO SHOW !EXSPECIALLY A FATHER!!!"AND SHE STARTS TO NAG AT MY DAD
2006-06-22 13:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by Grack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You live in different states, eh? If its really that important...
DRIVE, STUPID!
2006-06-22 20:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by Stephenaux 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋