I asked other questions concerning modesty and seem to have let some area's a little too open. What I am asking is why do some women not understand that there is a difference between dressing attractively and dressing to attract. You attract for the most part what you put bait out for. Do you want gentlemen or thugs?
2006-06-22 13:41:42 · 18 answers · asked by Debra M. Wishing Peace To All 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Because some women don't have any self-respect or self-esteem. These women usually have had experiences that teach them that showing themselves is the only way to get men. Also, some women learn to act this way from their family. If they were treated poorly as a child, they may not have any self-esteem and think no one is interested in them for any reason except for their body.
2006-06-22 13:47:36 · answer #1 · answered by corbeyelise 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont' know why. I have always been one of those women that like to stay covered. Even when I was a child I hated wearing swimsuits because I didn't like people especially perverted men looking at me, but people thought I had low self esteem. lol But I don't know why some women want to wear shorts with their butts hanging out, I guess that's the only way that they can get attention from men. A lot of women like thugs because they feel like a thug can protect them. I just don't know because I don't want one. It's hard for a thug to protect you when he's sitting behind bars for shooting up the club or whatever. lol
2006-06-22 20:48:55 · answer #2 · answered by dreamee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most women understand the difference. It is usually the more modest women that get in a twist. The ones more eccentric in their dress don't seem to get quite as upset about the attention they receive.
2006-06-22 20:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breast are there to feed babies mothers milk.How they became a sexual deal is not known to me.Whatever you attract you might want to look for someone who will stick around when you've got a baby attached to them. It's ironic that most guy's think boobs on display is great, but don't think breast feeding in public is the right thing to do.
2006-06-22 20:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by wolfpackfour@ameritech.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have to laugh..my favorite thing in the world to wear are sweatpants....and a baggy t-shirt. I still attract guys even though I am married....I don't have to reveal anything or thrust anything to get a man to notice me. My husband though...when I do dress up, I have to watch out for him...he wants to pounce on me at any given moment!
2006-06-22 20:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy... Some guys only want to look at em, but
others would rather pay attentions to other body parts, but I do feel like yes I do... I ain't no Pamela Anderson I'll tell ya that!
2006-06-22 20:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by T agent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no, look at my face when I talk, not my chest!
I think, maybe some women were starved for their fathers attention(I'm Guessing) so any way to make a man notice them is some type of attention...Negative attention is better than no attention.
2006-06-22 20:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by bugsie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know about other women but I don't. There are plenty of women who do that infront of my man and yes he may look (he wouldn't be a man if he didn't ) but me I did not have to do that to get his attention even though you would think he was the type of man that you would have to do that for.
2006-06-22 20:49:14 · answer #8 · answered by monchichie2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am just wondering how this question pertains to the religion and spirituality division of question and answers. I think there is a more appropriate section.
2006-06-22 20:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I usually thrust my butt in front of men not my breasts, I like both gentlemen and thugs
2006-06-22 20:44:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋