break up or not and how?

Question

i have been going out with this guy for about 5 monthes. he's 2 years older and it sometimes makes me uncomfortable. hes a really sensitive guy (one of the things i do not like about him), but i just don't know if i should break up with him and how. i can find so many flaws but not enough positives what should i do?

Answer 1

If you cant find enough positive things abouts him, what are you doing with him. Sensitive or not, break it off. You don't have to be rude just honest. He will appreciate it.

Answer 2

In your position you should never be in a relationship that you don't want to be in. And you also should not make that person think that hes wanted by you because it's not fair to him. I think that you should break up because your not comfortable and your hurting him as well. If you have a heart (some people don't) you'll do whats good for him and yourself in the long run. The way to do it is sit him down and let him know what you think. He'll never know if you don't tell him. I'm sure you'll do the right thing.

Answer 3

You're doing what you're suppose to do..make a list of the things you like and the things you don't like. Fact is, you're not going to change a guy; he's either good for you or not. Just tell him you need some time to sort things out and see guys your own age. Don't worry about how he feels about it. You know a bad dude when you see one, don't you??? If he makes you uncomfortable, tell him just that and go your way. Don't stick around for his "sensitive feelings"..that's B.S. anyway! You go girl.

Answer 4

hun i got out of that situation, i was with a guythat was 6 years older than me and was whiner than i was and im a teenage girl, i mean like what the hell!im 18 and he was 23 and he was so oversensitive that he would cry on my shoulder, he was a sweet guy but every little thing bothered me about him, s much that i ended up getting so frustrated that i cheated on him and he took me back! i got so mad, so i did it again, and he sytill took me back, either way i eventually broke up with him, but OMG the guilt he gave me, honestly if you love him stay with him, not, loose him, if you tihnk oyu love him...you dont loose him, mine masd me feel so guilty i cried myself to sleep for weeks. i found another man and he treats me amazingly. over all its your choiice, but you have my imput. to break up with him dont sdo what i did for GADS sake, just tell him how you feel and try to be freidsn (if hes realy that sensitive (and possibly gay in my case) hell understand, but be aware of the fact sensitive men change there minds more then wemon and can retaliate and tell you off and get into a ***** fight

Answer 5

sounds like hes a real sap.......no man should be too sensitive cuz then how can u protect your women if ur too busy crying cuz he just got to the part of the movie where bambi's mom gets shot?? now i get emotional every once in a while but im not sensitive only to my girl when she needs comfort but if hes jus straight up a goo goo doll then u need to trade him in.....tell him to date someone his age....

Answer 6

If you truly feel he has more flaws than positives then you need to let him know you do not want to continue a realtionship.

Answer 7

just tell him your feelings about him. I like you as a friend. In the end you both will forget each other. cause friends don't happen after you break up. I know from experience.

Answer 8

there is no way you can make the situation easier on him, specially if he´s the sensitive type...think of yourself and speak up. Do not stay with anybody because of pity.

Answer 9

I would have to say just break up with him. But let him down easy. Guys do not like to be crushed. Tell him how it is and how its gunna be.

Answer 10

Tell him the truth if it hurts him try to relax him but cancel the relationship