I am a virgin, and i would like to wait for marriage. But ive been feeling bad for my hubby because i feel like maybe he feels deprived of something he may need. I have offered him the oppurtunity and he always tells me he would like my dream to come true. (Giving my first husband my virginity) He says he understands and that im worth every minute!!! Am i wrong or should i just accept the fact that he understands?
2006-06-22 13:21:09 · 10 answers · asked by Momo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, whats the problem? You said you wanted to wait until your marriage, then wait. Why the fuss about feeling sad for your boyfriend, most guys don't want you to wait for your marriage day, or is he just saying that to still get in your pants, so he can get you to think that he's the "perfect" boyfriend in the world, you know boys pull those kinds of tricks. Be that special person and wait, and its gonna be worth while, when you do get married, it is a blessing to be a virgin.
2006-06-22 13:26:45 · answer #1 · answered by Danyizzle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a rush. Take your time. It sounds to me like he cares a lot about you and you should be thankful. A lot of guys would be trying to take advantage of your guilt and get you into bed. What you have to realize is that sex isn't the most important thing about a relationship. Love and respect is. Over time you will discover that while sex is good, sex alone can't sustain a happy and long lasting relationship. For a relationship to stand the test of time it takes plenty of patience, understanding and compassion. All things that come with love and respect. Good luck.
2016-05-20 12:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute! You're referring to him as your "first husband"? Do you already have plans to dump him for somebody else? Is he just your "starter" husband? Don't bother saving it for him if you don't intend to stay with him. Do him a favor and just break up with him now so he can at least find somebody who's honest.
2006-06-22 13:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand the whole waiting bit, so dose it still count if you just frig him off? Its not having sex but it still get the job done. I always liked a handy just as much as getting laid anyways. Good luck. B)
2006-06-22 13:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel bad that you are a virgin and your guy isn't. If he is willing to wait, there's is a possiblity he's in it for love, and not the sex. If he's in it for love, hang on to him. If not, let him go.
2006-06-22 13:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your FIRST husband??? You plan on having more than one?
2006-06-22 14:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what YOU feel is right, if he understands you are one lucky girl...maybe he is too?
2006-06-22 13:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by amyeleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure is unusual, but if he says so, why not believe what he says and go along with him.
2006-06-22 13:26:34 · answer #8 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what your talkin' about,cuz im goin' through things like that with my b. and hes not mad cuz he anderstands me
2006-06-22 13:25:49 · answer #9 · answered by lillyshamshom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL I BET IF U **** HIM AND GIVE HIM THE WORKS HE WOULD BE UR HUSBAND
2006-06-22 13:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋