I cant stop thinking about her even if I keep telling myself how bad she was for me. I keep thinking about all the good times we had and not the bad as much....I still love her...I tried to move on
2006-06-22 13:19:33 · 9 answers · asked by Lookinstr8over 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you for your answer, geeze i wish there were more guys with those kinds of answers. Honesty is the best.
but hmm. I believe that because you truly loved her, that is why it is taking some time for you to get over her. You know whats funny though, although she may have done you wrong, or no matter how bad she was, you still feel the same, thats true love right there. You just have to take some time to let yourself heal and just see that you have to just look at it for what it is. You telling yourself over and over how bad she was for you, isnt working because the love you have is more then the pain she has caused you. I hope you feel better though, and hopefully you will meet someone worth the while who will love you just the same.
thats my struggle now, Peace out dude.
2006-06-22 14:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by Priss18 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you are probably a truly loving guy. You sound like it anyway. It's hard for all of us to get over someone. You are on the right path tho. You admit you stil love her, and you are parroting advice I give people in here to get over someone... (or I say 'emphasize the bad points' even if you invent them.. and try and minimize the lovey-dovey stuff.) You might want to go find another woman right about now.. I do think you are ready, fellah. (Go ahead.. play around!) lol
2006-06-24 15:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation. i love my ex to death, and we are still friends...but right now we just need time to grow up and get on w/ our lives. hopefully later we can get back together and have a heathier relationship. he did so many terrible things for me and i let it happen for 3 years....but through it all i still loved him. its real love....i just hope after he gets out of the navy he will be a changed man. its definately possible to hate ur ex and still love her. if your love is meant to be....it will happen. maybe not now...but if 5 years from now u see her again and u think it could work....try it. nothing feels better than to love and to be loved.
2006-06-22 13:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody's been there before. even me. i'm still in love with my ex knowing that he's not all that good for me. the problem is, he still loves me too. so, what to do? i just mope around, thinking about him almost everyday. pretty sad, i know. but what to do when you still care about the other person...
2006-06-26 15:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by anak sendu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
brother.. i know you love her... we all loved our ex's at some time...when you break it off doesn't mean the love switch turns off. it takes time that's all... I broke up with and ex ages ago i still think of her from time to time..i'll always love her in some way... but i wouldn't think of getting back with her...
2006-06-22 13:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by The Thinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess it depends on what happened in the relationship. It must be confusing and tiring... Good luck.
2006-06-22 13:25:48 · answer #6 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Okay that was not very helpful. Uh.... hmm.... I know. try talking to her. what made you break up? fix it.
I give up. Move on with your life forget it.
2006-06-22 13:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by DreamXGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel
2006-06-22 14:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel
2006-06-22 13:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by elizabeth c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋