I like coming up to girls and talking, but i dont know what to talk about. I find it hard to keep the conversation going. What do you like to talk about?
2006-06-22 13:18:54 · 19 answers · asked by Ryan L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Current events, esp if it's something that happens annually. I like to talk bout Countryfest, but I doubt you'll be going there. You could talk bout whose going to your city to perform. If you're having unusual weather you could talk a bit bout that... If you notice something that someone's wearing that was probably bought as a souvenir you could acknowledge it. Ex. shirt that says something bout a band or other even, or maybe if it's for a good cause...like the Terry Fox Run. If you notice that she's wearing something that says Volunteer on it you can ask where she volunteers. If you like the saying on her shirt you can mention that as well. W/ all of these you can say, "I like your shirt," & give a lil laugh if appropriate. I have a bunch of so-called "cute" shirts like, "The Girl Next Door" or "Save a Horse Ride a Cowboy" (It's not a Big & Rich t-shirt btw ;) ha ha ha) If her shirt/license plate on the vehicle says a diff state/prov, you can ask if she's fr there or if she visited there (visited if it's a shirt). K well these might sound like dumb ideas but that's what came up @ the top of my head. Good luck !!! Btw, I'd like to be given the chance to approach a guy & talk to him too. Same situation w/ me as well. Oh ! & if she's walking a dog or something you can say something bout her dog then get to talking bout something else :) If you notice that she usually walks by your place or a certain place @ a certain time then you can ask be sorta waiting round there & "bump" in to her... If a new movie is gonna be playing you could ask if she's seen it or plans on seeing it. You could say that in a movie store also. If you run in to enough you can maybe suggest that you rent it & watch it w/ her... Good luck !!! (Y) :)
2006-06-22 13:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything that is of any imortance to you. It varies from girl to girl. Some are sporty, political, poetic, and musicians. Even job wise girls vary. Don't change yourself for a girl. Just talk from your knowledge. It will work. Just stay calm, cool, and confident. You can keep a conversation if you are sure of what you know. Ask them if they are into sports or something. If they do, what kinds? What teams? Start a controversy with her. Compare things. When you find ground you both agree on, start to talk about something about it. You just need to stop the small talk and learn to let loose.
2006-06-22 13:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by jopuppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask them about THEM! Let them tell you about them, they will find that you are intrested. And if they answer n keep the conversation going then you know they WANT you to know them if they blow you off then just shut up and take a hint! Oh ask what they do if they are a student what they are majoring in and why or what job they are at and if they plan to do it forever and are they happy there.........things that girls can go on about forever!
2006-06-22 13:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by cmassaget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could ask her how her mom and dad are doing.??.If she likes tennis talk about tennis and you will get a good conversation in..If tennis isn't her thing,find out what is and take it from there..Women like men who takes an interest in them and what they like..It shows them that you are interested in them and what
they enjoy..
Clowmy
2006-06-22 13:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What Ive perceived is that girls like when guys are interested in them. So ask questions about the girl(z).They want to be the ones to have the spotlight.
2006-06-22 13:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, like movies , sports , music , all that things you may talk about with guy friends all but girls ok don't mess it up.
2006-06-22 13:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about how nice she looks or how beautiful her eyes are. I know every girl loves compliments.
2006-06-22 13:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by Hottie417 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hah! Thats hilarious.
2016-03-27 01:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say hi. Then say how nice they look or something like that. OR you could comment about some special event that day or something. uh. i know. not really helping.
2006-06-22 13:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by DreamXGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything other then your job or mine, how about a movie or a show on tv, music things that interest you?
2006-06-22 13:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by cutiepie81289 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋