i being with this guy for about more than a year am 17 my bf wants my parents to know that his with me but my parents don't want me to have a bf right now because "too young" so should i tell them or wait? plz help
2006-06-22 13:06:47 · 11 answers · asked by ~sindy~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey hun, i'm as old as you and i honest to God just had the same problem you did too!!! my parents didn't want me to really date either and for a while they didn't know i had a bf. I finally came out and told them and it has all worked out fine. At first they said just group dates. ASk your parents if it's okay to just start out with group dates then start doing things alone with him every know and then with his family which means you'll be more alone but with his family. Then when you think you are ready to handle single dates, go to your parents and ask them. If they are really hesitant like mine were....compromise with them, tell them that you are responsible and have him come over to dinner so they can meet him and talk with him. Beleive me, the best way to have this whole relationship work out is if you are open...that way they will be able to trust you better! Best of luck
2006-06-22 13:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should go ahead and tell them, at first they are going to be upset or even treat u different they will probably not even want to talk to u, it will take some time don't give up, but if you really love him you'll be able to suffer for him a little and it will make your love stronger just don't do nothing that will disappoint ur parents. And if y'all going to be sexually involved make sure that he rap it up. Good luck let me know it turned out.
2006-06-22 20:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by caribbeangal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, basically, you've been going behind your parents back, AND against their wishes and you weren't honest enough with them to just talk to them about "boyfriends or dating" and yet, you're wanting someone to tell you....if you should keep hiding your deceitful ways or come out and break the trust they've put in you. A real winner here folks.
2006-06-22 20:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure go ahead, but if you don't want to just wait until your 18, then you'll be an adult and they can't say anything. :D Good luck. Also,to young ?! I'm too young, (15) By the age 16 you should be able to date, or atleast until you've proven yourself that your responsible enough.
2006-06-22 20:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r really 17 you should tell them
2006-06-22 20:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by lisa d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with victoria. but also just tell them that u think ur ready and its not like ur going to go violent. tell them how u feel about the situation.
2006-06-22 20:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ethereal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them at the right time (when there in a good mood)!
2006-06-22 20:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them
2006-06-22 20:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell them say wt would u say if i had a boyfriend?
2006-06-22 20:10:07 · answer #9 · answered by me&zack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... what would you tell me if i was in your place?
2006-06-22 20:12:17 · answer #10 · answered by miss chemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋