how do i ask my parents if i can date?

Question

i am almost thirteen and they said i cant date until im 16!

Answer 1

i would just wait. it seems like forever, but you're going to do a lot of growing up during that period. (trust me, i was just there cause i'm 17 now and i'm still learning and growing like crazy)
you're still young and guys take advantage of that. guys that age... are immature (at least every guy i've seen) lol, not that guys ever mature...
i wouldn't do anything behind my parents back... they'll just say you can't date till you're 18! plus lying about something so big is not easy. and there will probably be things you want to ask your mom about, but then you won't be able to... just wait!

Answer 2

I think you should let your parents make the decision..
Reasons why :
They were as hormonal as you are, and they may have had the same question as you do, but if they are telling you to wait, then I suggest you hold your horses.
At 13, there are only 2 or 3 things guys are looking for in a girl; namely sex, more sex and even more sex.
At 13, you have a long road ahead and I suggest that you take in the view and go slow, because as you grow up, you will thank your parents for letting you go slow.
The movie 'Thirteen'. If you have'nt already heard about it, go to your nearest library and rent it out.
All the best and hope to see you making an informed decision
Cheers!!

Answer 3

I'm a mother of a 15 yr old, I'll tell you what I told her.
-When you are older guys will still be around, the opportunities you miss are gone forever.
-Grow up before you start looking to go out with anyone but friends. Graduate from college and establish a career before you date seriously. That way you are able to be a partner in a relationship, not someone's shadow.

Use your parent's age requirement to your advantage. Tell them if you have a car when you turn 16 you can drive on the date so you can come straight home if you have any problems. It worked for me!

Answer 4

"Mom, Dad, I would honestly like to date now. I know you said that I couldn't, but when you thyink about it, It's not like I'm getting married or anything quite yet. I just want to know what the whole dating thing is about. I would like to know what I am doing, so in the future I won't miss the right opportunity because I don't know what is supposed to happen. I feel it would greatly improve future situations, and better my li9fe if you would let me date at this age I am. Thanks and I know you will do the right thing."


That is what I would say

Answer 5

waiting until your 16 is a great idea, because lets be honest here, your still not mature enough and you'll probably try and act like an adult when dating, so just wait, you don't need to add more drama to your early teenage years

Answer 6

uh..I'm 15 and I haven't been on a date. Don't worry about it sheesh, you've got time!