She calls and leaves crazy messages and tells him that their kid cant be around me and its hard because we live together. She wants him back. I hate this ***** so bad. Id fight her but that would only fuel her fire she is crazy and obsessed...
2006-06-22 13:03:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not try to talk to her to find out what is going on? I did this once. I called her up w/o cursing or being rude (gain her trust). I told her we definatley have a problem and since her childis involved I wanted to know what I could do to make the situation bearable for all.The disrespectful calls ended, and it turned out she wanted "her" man back (he set her straight). She admitted she was outright jealous. We don't particularly care for each other, but I have the respect I deserve and she hers, he gets to see
his daughter w/o drama. Win/Win situation. Have you ever heard of that phrase kill em w/ kindness? It does work! If thisdosen't work,you'll have to whip her *** to gain peace.
2006-06-22 13:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by nene 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is really hard to break it off with someone when you have kids. There is a strong bond there. Eventually, she is going to move on and find someone new. She is hurt that he found someon new and moved on so much quicker than her.
Don't fight her- she is a mama after all and you might be a step mama to these kids someday! Think about what is best for the kids. Try and stay out of it as much as possible, let him deal with it. Also, tell him he needs to talk w/ her and tell her she needs to move on.
Also, you have to wonder. What about him made her this crazy? Maybe it is not so one-sided. Is he egging her on in some way. Tough situation, so be careful (and try!) to stay out of the drama.
2006-06-22 13:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel sorry for the poor woman who wants to atrac his attention just because she knows that he´s gone for good. If she keeps bothering you just make a formal complaint to the police, because if she keeps doing this, your relationship with your boyfriend will be in jeopardy: not because she can have an impact on it, but because she´s affecting your state of mind.
2006-06-22 13:08:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any sentence that starts with " My boyfriends babies momma" is just asking for trouble. Dang what's the world coming to?
2006-06-22 13:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by lady25mo2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get used to it she's in his life for ever because of the kids. Sorry and good luck!
2006-06-22 13:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soundes like a movie tittle my boyfriends babbies mama howes that 4 head lines
2006-06-22 13:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may see it diferent when your the mamma and hes got the new girl on his arm. let him take care of his responsibilities and get used to it.
2006-06-22 13:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by error file not found 404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im with Stephan D on this one!
2006-06-22 13:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have to take a brack from him and see what you really want in your life , just a thought
2006-06-22 13:09:46 · answer #9 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs not to call your house unless it is about their kids anything else he need to hang up on her if he respects u
2006-06-22 13:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋