Every time my boyfriend talks to any other girl i get jealous...it is really more or less i get angry...is this something normal???? HELP
2006-06-22 12:47:47 · 30 answers · asked by Jolliegurl04 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay guys talk to everyone, even other girls. If he is talking to the girl, most of the time he doesn't know that it piss you off unless you tell him. There are guy that dont' pick up clues well, and he isn't doing it to you to piss you off. But if he is just talking to a female, then don't be jealous. Beleave everything is okay, there is no theat to you. Okay if the flirting is going on, then yes there is a promble. If he is flirting then it is time to have a talk with him that that action upsets you. If it is the girl that is flirting with him. Then don't get upset, and sign of jealous could in danger the relationship. Just go up to him and give him a long deep kiss in front of girl. Or get in front of your man and your back to him and rub your *** up and down or side ways. That will stop the talking from everyone. Because give don't talk to other females with a hard on and his mind will not be toward what they are talking about.
2006-06-22 13:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normal? Only if you are an insecure person to start with. Either that, or, if your boyfriend has given you a REASON to be jealous, you are with the wrong person. Talking is nothing to be jealous about. If your man is not doing anything wrong, he will eventually get tired of putting up with your insecurities and end the relationship. Take stock. If the problem is yours-FIX IT. You and your boyfriend will be much happier.
2006-06-22 12:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that's a good sign. It says that you really like him and is protective. But it is best if you don't scream at the girl he is talking to or do something mean- just watch from the sidelines. Yea it's normal. We all feel jealous of someone else. Also, it is okay for him to only just TALK to a girl right?
2006-06-22 12:52:40 · answer #3 · answered by DreamXGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal guys Jealous of good looking guys ? Yes if they are wooing the same girl. Nope if a girl is not involved .There is no reason for a normal guy to be jealous of a Good looking guy.( Except for his good looks which is rated too high by persons like you ). If a girl is involved why not ask the girl who the good lookind guy is -- the Normal guy or the good looking guy ?
2016-03-27 01:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he given you a reason to be jealous or insecure...has he cheated... if not then trust him and let your guards down. I think a little bit of jealousy is normal but too much will cause problems in your relationship and can end up ruining a good thing so be careful.
If your relationship is still new he could be trying to see how much you care... it can be a way of testing limits. Don't let him push it to far and talk to him about it if it is really upsetting you. Communication is the key!
Good Luck,
Baby Bear :O)
2006-06-22 13:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by baby_beardog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A twinge of jealousy is normal. Getting angry means that you don't trust your relationship and think someone may "take him away from you." If that's the case, then you're either very young or you're in the wrong relationship or both. If you can't take the idea of your boyfriend even having a conversation with another girl, that's a problem.
2006-06-22 12:52:10 · answer #6 · answered by PuterPrsn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To feel a little jealous because the attention is not on you is normal. But if your bf has not given you a reason to be jealous than you need to stop getting angry. He will eventually get sick of it, just like anybody would.
2006-06-22 12:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's totally normal but u should learn to control it. If you are overly possessive then your guys is going to get scared and back out of the relationship. It really has to do with whether u trust him or not? If u have reason to think that he is cheating...bring it up with him but u need to understand that he obviously picked you out of all his other girl friends because he saw something special in you...so that is a good reason to trust him. They are just his friends so chill out. My boyfriend has a lot of girl friends and i trust him and we have an even better relationship because of it! Best of luck!
2006-06-22 13:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal or acceptable behavior. Stop and think about it. Are you so insecure that your boyfriend will cheat on you that you can't let him talk to another girl. If he would he's not worth your time. If he won't then give him the respect he deserves.
2006-06-22 12:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At some point yes, it's consider a normal part of being a human in love. But once you start to slash his tires and stalk him 24/7 is no longer normal.
2006-06-22 12:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by lelekid4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋