why is it that ex's want to call and "be cool" with you after breaking your heart?
2006-06-22 12:30:54 · 35 answers · asked by ladytina30 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My lords!!! reviewing those other answers you wonder how love still exists in this world! ignore him...poison him..kick em to the curb... Listen sweety non of us really know why he is doing that...maybe it is like some of the answers..he wants his cake and he wants to eat it as well, he wants to get involved with you, he may be having probs..it may be his conscience...you'll honestly never know until you talk to him...he broke your heart by leaving you for another and i went through that exact same thing a couple of years ago...only that it was a she on my part... only you know where you stand with him... if it's over, it's over...you are the one in control here not him... some of them answered and assumed that you are weak.. that if you ever were to talk to him ...automatically everything that happens is out the door and you're in bed with him again....the only person that can allow that to happen is you...use the opportunity to talk to him FOR YOU let him answer some of your questions... and after it all...let him know where the relationship between you and him really stands...whether that stand will be 'it's over!' or 'we're okay... the bottom line is that its important for closure and moving on..trust me... i know.
2006-06-22 12:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by The Thinker 2 · 11⤊ 1⤋
He thought the grass was greener she broke his heart he doesnt want to be alone so he is calling you he willrun again if you give him a chance i will chat with you
2006-06-22 12:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by Paul T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe there having a bad life with that person there married to, so they want to chat with someone they already know.
2006-06-22 12:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And you are still answering his call?????
He never respected you and never will.
I think you should just ignore him. Make it known to him in no unclear terms that you will NEVER take back 'Damaged Goods'.
Girl, where is your Self Respect??
Block his calls. And delete any memory of him from your past.
And this in medical terms is called Selective Amnesia.
Cheers!!
2006-06-22 12:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey my boyfriends broke my heart and I the type of girl who doesn't hold grudges. I just let it go and be friends with the person. That's what you should do is just be friends but please don't fall for him. He left you and you should fall back in love because your just gonna be hurt again.
2006-06-22 12:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by junclekitty86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"just wanting to chat" I don't think so. juss tell him ur not interested and move on. there's no point in reliving the past. he mite juss break ur heart again and u dont deserve that.
2006-06-22 12:35:43 · answer #6 · answered by ♥babygurl♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they want to keep you at arm's length just in case they want you back they might have a chance, take it from a guy, he wants to have his cake and eat it too!
2006-06-22 12:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by silverblack12345 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go...move on and be happy
Ex's suck...its best to leave them in the past
Ex's are ex's for a reason
2006-06-22 12:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hel*! He wants to clean up his dirty conscience! PLus,he must think that if your heart has been broken maybe you're weak enough to come back! You know how it goes!
2006-06-22 12:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by fabee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk to him... something obviously is going wrong in his life and he is now experiencing regrets for what happened with you, but it might not be good for you. he might want to use you while he works out whatever problem he has. dont be the other woman.
2006-06-22 12:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by LiLiTh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋