what can you do about parents?

Question

i hate my mom
absolutely hate her
and my sister
and not just sometimes but always
they suck
what can i do???
my life SUCKS

Answer 1

Try going to Mediation. You can find one near you in the phone book (many communities have free services even). If you call the office yourself they will contact your family for you and explain how it works.
How it works:
You and your mom (and dad or sister or whoever needs to be there) will go to a little meeting with the mediatior. The mediators job is to make sure everyone gets a chance to be heard and that you all deal with the issues you think you need to talk about. At the end you will all (hopefully, but it doesn't always happen) sign an agreement on how you want things to be in the future but you don't have to agree if you don't want to. It's just a safe, neutral place that you all get a chance to get everything out and really hear each other.
Good luck!
And remember your parents love you.

Answer 2

You obviously have realized that there is a conflict with mom and sis. Your next step is to (this is the hard part) see if there is anything you might be doing or not doing to contribute to the conflict. Don't be so quick to point the finger if there could be something that you could do differently to make it better. Maybe you're being a little selfish and bratty about something? Throwing a fit and being unreasonable aren't going to help matters just because you're not getting your way. Not that I know if you are doing these things, I'm just saying. Let some time go by and see if you can try to work things out with them without fighting about it. Sit down with them and try to get your point across but be willing to see their point as well.

Answer 3

Well I don't always enjoy my family either (it can get a bit stressful) but I try and think about the good things in life and how blessed I am. Besides, NO ONE is perfect, so try to overlook their shortcomings! Focus on the positive and if you want you can even start a thankful journal where you write down 5 good things each day (things you're thankful for). It's great to look back over when you're down and it helps you focus on the good. Some days it is hard to write a few then they're really simple, like electricity etc.

Answer 4

When life gives you lemons - make lemonade

My guess is you are possibly a misguided youngster

It's too bad you hate your own mother
Could she possibly have the same feeling for you as you have for her ?
I can also imagine that your Mom and your sister makes your life unbearable ! or miserable !
If you hate them so much why don't you live your life without them ? Try separating yourself from them , don't be around them !
I know for a fact , most self centered , inconsiderate, defiant humans find it easy to hate the one who gave them life . The one who has made many sacrifices from birth right up to the moment you've learned to hate. --And what better candidate to reciprocate bitter hatred than MOTHER .
I hope things get better for you and your mother too .

Try to imagine what it's like living your life daily knowing that someone HATES you . What could you have done to make someone hate you ?

Answer 5

Why dont you grow up!! yeah life does suck but you have a mom that loves you ,Ill bet any thing she grieves cause of your immaturity. Stop being a spoiled brat !!Shes the only mother youll ever have . My mother died three months ago of cancer,and ill never talk to her again. Why would you hate her cause you cant have your way.Dont you realize how much your hurting them by saying you hate them. I have sisters that piss me off but i wouldnt got so far as to say I hate them . Grow up!!

Answer 6

Sounds like you need professional help if you hate your family THAT much. Seek it, it might help. But, I'll bet you're just angry because you're not getting your way about something (probably a boy) and your sister probably bugs you too much as siblings tend to do.

Answer 7

Why do you hate them so much? What did they do to make you hate them? Maybe, sometimes they just try to make you see their point of view and you just don't see it their way. On the other hand, maybe they are just pmsing at the same time.

Answer 8

Youre life doesnt suck they do.. trust me i am in a similar situation after all the years you just deal with it... dont let them get to you and live youre life... i know that they are family, but dont live youre life for them... enjoy youreself ... you cant pick youre family.. and it does suck cause if we could life would be perfect..

Answer 9

Oh my God, you poor dear. How horrible, you have a mother and a sister that you hate while there are hundreds upon thousands of kids in Africa who are suffering from AIDS and lost their parents to the same disease.

Answer 10

I remember hating my mom. I felt she wasn't fair, didn't understand me and everything had to be her way. But, she loved me enough to withstand all of my anger and resentment to guide me to the right choices. In the end...I loved her very much.

Now, I have kids. They don't always like me very much. Our kids have lots of friends but only two parents. As parents, we have to love them enough to be strong enough to do what is best even if it means that that they don't like us for doing it.

It is hard to advise you on your problem when I really don't know the details. (If you are a victim of abuse, tell a teacher, pastor, priest, another parent.)

As a rule, parents really love their children. They drive us crazy, we drive our kids crazy. As a rule, even when our kids "hate" us, they love us. I bet your mom loves you. Talk to her. If Dad (or Aunt/Uncle, Grandparents) can help, ask them to.