we've been together almost two years, of course the fire has gone down and he doesn't tell me he loves me near as much.....is he comfortible or lying?
2006-06-22 12:22:12 · 11 answers · asked by punkyblonde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably just comfortable. You could ask him. If you're just not feeling any love from him, there could be a problem. Try to rekindle the relationship and add the spark back in it.
2006-06-22 12:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by Sparky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For one, no matter how comfortable a man gets, he will always tell his woman he loves her. Believe me I know, been married for 8 years, almost 9 years. And, my man tells me everyday and night that he loves me. Either your man, just doesn't want to say it to you anymore, or he's just not going to bother with it, and if the fire has gone down (almost out) you both need to talk and see why the fire is almost gone. Only you two can resolve the issue.
2006-06-22 12:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by farside76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is comfortable! Do you 2 talk/communicate? The fire cools, but communication is always hot!
A woman need to hear things a man doesn't! Talk to him about it - the fact that you are feeling insecure. Then you will have the perfect answer - one way or the other!
2006-06-22 12:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the fire's not out (!) it sounds like he's just comfortable. The fire always dies down a bit after a while but as long as the spark is still there... hope everything works out.
2006-06-22 12:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there's a lot of things I know maybe he has another girl, the 2 of you are not for each other, he's just tired of you or he doesn't love you anymore and if he's comfortable then listen to your heart and see if he is comfortable for you or show hin that you love him but i dont know if this will solve your question
2006-06-22 12:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably just comfortable and believes in the fact that u know he loves u. u should TALK TO HIM!!! if u've been together for two years than u obviously have a prettty open line of communication already, so just talk to him, get it straight from the source! not listening to a bunch of opinions from people like me and these other yahoos, who don't know the whole/real situation.
2006-06-22 12:33:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Challenge him in different ways. Don't be afraid to take the intitative. Above all be yourself and don't be afraid to take up new hobbies, etc....and don't stress him out to the point where he decides he hates you, especially if he treats you right. Stand by each other as far as reason dictates.
2006-06-22 12:26:56 · answer #7 · answered by synchronicity915 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww Mr availabullshit.............that was wrong!!!.........well sweety its hard to say......maybe you should ask..........but sometimes things just fizzzle for no reason........other times there are "factors" only you know what truly is going on better than us. Good luck and don't get down.....Be a strong woman and take the "bull" by the horns!
2006-06-22 12:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him where you stand if you have doubts!! We here can only offer suggestions but you have to confront him and see just where you stand!!
2006-06-22 12:33:41 · answer #9 · answered by Damned fan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to talk to your boyfriend not us!
2006-06-22 12:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by ascendent2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋