i feel so bad?

Question

im feeling really bad and i wanna cry i dont feel like doing anything i have no self esteem lately i wanna do some much but im too depressed to do it i want a bf so bad i told my friend i liked him and he didnt say anything but he wanted to be friends and i am in love with him but i cant have him im so upset im all alone i wish i had a friend

Answer 1

I can understand how you feel, i was rejected by my first love(brutal) and wasnt the most popular guy in school and with friends. I tell you as bad as it feels its only temporary, everything will change all of a sudden when u either meet a friend randomly, meet your guy randomly. You will look back and say, what the hell was it thinking. There isnt anything anyone can say to help you because none of us can exactly understand what your thinking. So my suggestion would be if you dont have a close friend then try joining some online communities, they have different ones for all age groups and it'll give u a purpose of belonging somewhere, you can meet some great ppl that you can share some of your problems with. and while your at it, find a hobby, mabye a sport? it'll deff help. :) hope it helps, be safe

Answer 2

Victoria, I am sorry to hear that there is a bit of disrespect in your house---but a 33 year old will never move out if mom is dottering and spoiling him---why should he go?? trouble is he will never learn how to peacefully co-exist with a woman on a mature level...what a shame. You are also witnessing a bit of crude disrespectful behavior that comes from being family and living together all these years. To an outsider this all sounds terrible--to you and your brother it is just day to day living. So say no if you have to--he won't explode or turn blue. Relax, be cool, be nice, and good luck-----SMILE

Answer 3

Sounds like you are depressed. You need to realize that getting depressed is not going to get you a bf and it's not going to help get friends either. You should never get depressed over a guy - it's not worth it to put yourself in a position like that.
Talk to someone you trust - a good friend, your mom, a cousin - and tell them what you're going through. Everyone gets depressed at some time or another, but you have to want to get out of it and move on.
This guy you like so much wants to be friends with you - whats so bad about that? Maybe he wants to get to know you better before going out with you. It's always good to be friends with people and get to know them - if you don't truly know someone you can't be in love with them - it's very possible that you are in love with the idea of them (also called infatuation).

Answer 4

Why don't you hang out with your friends?..hopefully, they will be able to cheer you up. It is also good not to think too much about it and do some fun activity. Also, talk it out with your closest friends. Unrequited love is tough..but in time you will heal. If not friends, talk to a close family member you can trust. Good luck. Self-worth should not be tied to a guy...there are other guys who will like you for yourself.

Answer 5

not everyone in this world is going to be in love with you when you want them too. its hard sometimes accepting people dont like you the same way. but you have to accept it and let it go. go ahead and cry, it might make you feel better. you wont make any friends staying in at home and crying all day though... so hurry up... and get over this heartbreak so that you can go out and see the world.

Answer 6

first learn what the meaning of love bf gf has to be involve when he didnt say any thing he was being polite he could have told you he wasnt interested and that would really hurt he is a friend he care how you feel so value him as a friend and dont blow it as bf gf

Answer 7

Hey look me in the eyes.... ok thats better now You are beautiful and unique and a wonderful unrepeatable miracle ... so cheer up sad doesn't suit your face
You know when I'm down I just look up. Clouds, just like you, are beautiful and bright and wonderful unrepeatable miracles so go look at them and I promise you will forget all of your other problems...P.S. I'm your friend just e-mail me for more positive feelings any time you want

Answer 8

There are 6.5 billion people in this world. Trust me, you'll find someone whether they turn out to be your friend or boyfriend. Just relax, let it go, and move on. Only time with tell everything and you've got be patient. When you want to find something, what do you do? Stop looking for it. It'll find you.

Answer 9

Yeah...I'm pretty sure we've all been through that stage or predicament at least once in our lives...especially the part about wanting someone....but that someone special to you doesn't want to be serious/committed and all.
You seem so sweet,innocent & honest...I'm sure the time will come when that certain someone will sweep u off your feet...he may be closer than you think.However,don't expect and/or be anxious of it.Instead,get involved in more activities,hobbies,fitness & sports,etc.-those are extra ways of meeting alot of interesting people...be patient sweety and don't sit around waiting for him...let them come to you-sooner or later it's bound to happen................

Answer 10

when ur waiting for him to decide concentrate on ur other things in life like getting ur own apartment,getting a well paid job,getting a degree(higher if u already have one),getting a hobby,volunteering since i am in relationship from 5years waiting for him to say he loves me which he does love me i did all of this and finally i feel happy,settled,content,prosperous,
independent in my life.so now hes the perfect gift for me which godwilling it will happen soon.