My boyfriend has an addiction of posting his profile on numerous sex sites, dating sites, and web-cam sites. I have been seeing him for almost 5 years now, and felt something was 'wrong' with our relationship. I had posed as 'Jane' about a year ago and sent him an email......hook, line, sinker, he took the bait....he couldn't wait to talk to me in chat rooms etc. Well since then I confronted him as he promised never to do that again. The same thing is still going on, but he says it's something he does for fun when he can't get out and fish, golf, camp, etc. Some how I want to believe him, but part of me still thinks he's a lying dog! He puts me down every chance I get, gives me no credit, but only sees the bad things (by the way I'm 36 he's 52). So I still enjoy drinking and fast food! LOL...he belongs to AA and I have tried to convince him 3 years ago that we wouldn't work, but he insisted on seeing me. He doesn't want to get married, so my question is he cheating or not?
2006-06-22 11:21:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He hasn't married you, so technically he is not cheating. He is however acting in a very improper and im-moral way. If you was married, it would be considered cheating, and almost the same as adultry in your marriage. If he treats you the way that you say he does, imagine what it will be like 10 yrs or more down the road. He is never going to marry you at this point in his life, and you still have so much left of your life. Dump him, and find a real man that will cherish you and treat you properly.
2006-06-22 11:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The exact same thing has happened to me - I got out and never looked back. A leopard never changes its spots. My ex made promises to me as well and then we had girls turning up on our front doorstep, he went interstate to meet girls.....it all went pear shaped. Men like this cannot be trusted in the long run and it is cheating!
2006-06-22 11:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by starz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not cheating,unless he meets with them, it is fantasy. But, why would you want to spend time with someone who has no interest in marrying you and puts you down whenever he can. It may not be cheating, but you should still find someone who appreciates you, for what you have to offer. Try to think more positive about yourself, and you will realize that you are wasting your time with him.
2006-06-22 11:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's Cheating.
2006-06-22 11:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by tiger_skratch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think anything crosses over into at least mild cheating if it is being hidden or covered up. If it's not cheating, then why would it have to be hidden?
2006-06-22 11:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it is because ur having sex on the internet its like if u go somewhere to look for some one to have sex thats my opinion
2006-06-22 11:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by basketball_babygirl_82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating, definitely. There isn't any excuse for his behavior.
2006-06-22 11:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Eudora 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no this is not cheating, however it is very disrespectful to you you should probably drop him until you can be the center of attention.
2006-06-22 11:25:41 · answer #8 · answered by George T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
at 52 who cares, let him have his fun
2006-06-22 11:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by dyno_bot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, it is cheating.
2006-06-22 11:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by jenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋