2006-06-22 11:10:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because maybe u r guarded and protectin yourself from gettin hurt because you have been hurt before ! maybe because u r pretty u feel that guys only want u as a trophy and not for the person u really are ??? maybe u just haven't met the right guy yet coz 9 times out of 10 they are not worth your time !
You are better to be single and wait for Mr Right rather than Mr Rightnow!
I am not qualified to answer your question because I am in the same position as u !
2006-06-22 11:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Is your personality a reflection of your outer beauty? I sure hope it is. If not, try to be nicer. But if you are already kind to others and your outer beauty matches your beauty within, it's probably just intimidation. I have always been told I'm drop dead gorgeous by everyone I meet. Complete strangers have stopped me on the street to tell me so. My grandma always said, "Pretty is as pretty does," and I always took that to heart and have treated others with the respect I'd like to receive back. I often had problems when I first started dating and I came to find most guys were very intimidated. When you've got a triple threat going on (brains, beauty and personality) it almost seems to good to be true. Keep on being a good person and smile a lot...people will feel less intimidated by approaching you. And get out there and get into activities that you enjoy doing. When you break the ice with an activity, people will see you for your abilities and stop focusing on how pretty you are.
2006-06-22 18:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might b dat u r pretty but mayb ur personality does not match wit da guys. it can also b becuz ur lookin for a partner right now that y u cant find him but once u stop trust me u will find him witout a doubt. i m sure ur pretty but sometimes looks dunt get u a partner day get u a player. keep ur head up and think if da guy is true if he comes along instead of rushin through a relationship. good luck with whatever happenz!
2006-06-22 18:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've asked myself the same thing several times. Just think for a second, most people don't just look for someone with looks, so... what is you're attitude like? How about your body language towards other people? I'm not saying to change who you are and it may just be you haven't met the right person but remember, what's inside counts more than what's outside.
2006-06-22 18:16:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ithy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are too shy? If not that, then maybe it's your attitude. Are you considered a nice girl to everyone or only the people you like? If none of those seem like they don't fit you... then maybe you are looking for the wrong type for you. Try doing one of those on-line surveys that help you find your personality type... they are easily found on just about any dating web-site. Just be careful meeting people over the internet.
2006-06-22 18:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me too. that's what ppl tell me,, im pretty, and i am. but why then can i not find the right guy, or even the right type of guy? im already divorced and im only 24.. been thru most everything relationship wise that i possibly could encounter. so where are the good guys?
2006-06-22 18:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by Kasey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if its for sex u can find plenty but for a life partner i am not having luck with that either!! I have a new saying "I am hot enough for a guy to wanna lay beside me in life but not hot enough for a guy to wanna stand beside me in life!!"
2006-06-22 18:18:33 · answer #7 · answered by one_redneckmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't everything. It's about personality. Just get out there and be your self. Someone is waiting for you just to make your move.
2006-06-22 18:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by Jasmine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it took me 31 years to get married, and I am relatively attractive, intelligent and fun to be around. it's not a competition and it's nothing you can control..it will happen when it will, and the best you can do is make yourself available, be social, and get involved in social things where you can meet someone.
2006-06-22 18:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the right guy hasn't showed up yet. Just keep looking.
2006-06-22 18:13:19 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋