I Love her, and she says she still loves me. I messed up alot, but im changed, and i want to just let her know, i don't want to lose her
2006-06-22 10:31:20 · 15 answers · asked by Hulk116 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've tried to show her, and tell her, all she tells me is that its to late, but then she'll tell me she still loves me, and that I am the love of her life, Im so so confused
2006-06-22 11:10:38 · update #1
You may have to let her go in a sense give her some space then show her that youve changed by your actions if its true love and you really have changed she will see that and give you another chance.
2006-06-22 10:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by I wanna stay on maternity leave! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if the arguing is getting in the way of you both being happy the best option is to walk away and give it time. Being together and not being happy is honestly only a waste of time for both. If you two only end up being friends in the end it's definitely better than nothing at all. They always say if you love somebody let them go .. if they come back to you then they're the one for you (or something like that). I've followed that rule a time or two and the last time I did he came back and we just recently got married. Good luck :)
2006-06-22 10:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by MaryMathewes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing like fighting too hard for the one you love. So if you have screwed up you need to keep trying to prove to her that you really are sorry and have really changed.
This may not be entirely easy because depending on how badly gone it is, she may be fed up. Having her love you still is a big deal so just stick your tail betwen your legs and beg her forgiveness. Do the things that make her weak for you.
She is lucky if you really have changed. Trying to get my bf to change a while now. Good luck.
2006-06-22 10:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to prove it to her. Ask her if you could start over and begin through the "talking/dating" phase and then go from there. As long as you ease back into it it should be fine as long as you've really changed.
If you are still with her though prove how much you care and start doing little romantic things like:
Write her a letter or a card and put it where she will find it.
Bring her flowers
Buy her something
Cook her dinner (have it by candle light)
Something romantic that girls like. That's how to show her that you care.
2006-06-22 10:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went and am going through the same thing. Best to show her how you've changed. Words are just words without action. Be her friend first and show her you are there for her. If she says she still loves you then you have nothing to worry about. Good luck!
2006-06-22 10:38:25 · answer #5 · answered by Houston Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to tell her. That is what she needs to hear from you. you cant just SAY your a changed person you have to show her. Stop fighting with her over the little things. Give her extra special attention. Tell her you love her out of nowhere just cause.
2006-06-22 11:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is talk to her and tell her exactly how you feel and compromise. You are going to have to show her how you have changed because words aren't going to be enough
2006-06-22 10:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you argue alot like that then you guys needs to sit down and have a talk about why do you argue so much.
2006-06-22 10:36:21 · answer #8 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you fighting about? Arguments come about over our own selfishness. Let her see you have changed for herself, and if it's meant to be it will work out.
2006-06-22 10:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by thisisme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel and be honest! But, in my experience, if you screwed up too many times, it ain't gonna happen. I wish you the best of luck!
2006-06-22 10:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by JANA M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋