First dates . . .?

Question

what do u wear ? do u get butterflies in your stomach ?? what do u talk about ?? where do u go ?? do u sleep with them ???

This is a generalised question to listen to first hand experiences of what a First Date is like for people, and how it differs for each person ??

Answer 1

i just relax myself, ask yourself "whats the big deal?" the last date i was on we went to bar/restuarant/arcade. it was loads of fun playing games together and not having to stare at eachother. i am a very easy-going guy, so i like to have fun and talk about anything.

we didnt sleep together on the 1st date. doesnt bother me but it is completely up to her.

Answer 2

What to wear? Depends on what we're doing, but I like to go with jeans, a pair of low heels, and usually a nice shirt.
Butterflies? Not very often, but if I do get them for a guy, then it's wonderful.
Talk about? I like to talk about subjects that aren't too serious on a first date. So, no religion or politics. But instead, hobbies and work.
Where to go? For a 1st date, I like to go to dinner, and then usually a bar. I like to talk as much as possible. You can talk a lot over dinner, and alcohol helps loosen things up.
Sleep? I rarely have sex on a 1st date if I really like the guy, b/c almost all guys like a challenge and the longer you can hold out the better. The couple of times I have made the mistake of sleeping with a guy on the 1st date, I've regretted b/c I ended up liking the guy and the guy was bored with me pretty quick. Guys like the chase, at least most of them do, and the ones who say they don't, well I think they are lying to themselves.

Answer 3

wear something comfortable but not too revealing..you wanna leave a lot to his imagination, yes butterflies..especially if your really into the person, talk about anything that is interesting...especially things that you have in common, even things you dont have in common..great way to get to know each other, go to dinner,art museum, any place that you can talk...No movies..unless you know there will be no second date, Dont sleep with him....wait it out...you dont want him to taste the goods right away..if your a good person it will be worth the wait.

Answer 4

My husband and I went to a comedy club for our first date. I wore some sexy clothes. No butterflies I was good friends with him for a long time before our first date. I slept with my husband on our first date but like I said before we for good friend for probably about 3 years.

Answer 5

WHATEVER YOU DO DO NOT SLEEP WITH THEM RIGHT ON THE FIRST NIGHT!!!!!!! Good advice if you really want something to come of the relationship.

Go to a chilin bar, have a couple of drinls talk about him, how he grew up or what kind of things like music, clothes, bands, etc does he like.

Be cool. Don't talk to fast and don't talk about yourself all night.

Answer 6

flattering but comfy
heck yes
anything but your exes
usually a restaurant or movie
from my point of view if i can get her on the first date it doesn't make a good impression on me for how long it will last. my best relationships it took from several weeks to a few months.

Answer 7

were what you like yes i get butterflies talk about him and what he like's the movie's that way if he's ugly you got to see a movie no then they will think that your easy

Answer 8

That generally happens to all people,being nervous. Just relax,wear something nice,talk about things that interest u and sleep with them only if u want to. Don't seem to anxious,thats all and relax........................................

Answer 9

wear something that describes wat you feel, do wat you feel, and go where you are comfortable, movies are good, but a first date is an experience and the players are reactionary. people say be yourself, but don't be afraid to take risks