It was Valentine's day, and our six month annaversary, i setup a great dinner, and sent flowers to her house, she was an only child, of a single mom, when i called her cell phone a guy answered and told me she was to busy...u know...to talk to me?
what should i do
2006-06-22 10:25:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her what was up with that guy answering her phone...if its reasonable...try again...if not..let her go & send me flowers!hee hee
2006-06-22 10:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this guy another boyfriend? Just a friend? Roommate? Number one rule is DO NOT assume. Did she ever return the call? If she didn't then just think of it as HER loss. You put a lot of effort (dinner, flowers) into making a nice evening and she mistreated you - it's disrespectful and you don't need that. Good luck.
2006-06-22 10:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her butt. Sounds like you're a nice guy--do you know how many women never get flowers or a special dinner from the men in their lives? Lots and lots. Find someone who will appreciate your romantic heart.
2006-06-22 10:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mad About Purple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no, that guy could have disliked you for some reason. This girl might not have even known you called her. She might be completley oblivious to it still waiting for your call. You need to ask her if she was too busy to talk and if she knew it was you before you jump to conclusions.
2006-06-22 10:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by Why Not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are leaving out something.
You couldn't have been with her for 6 months and not know there is some guy around who answers her phone.
Whats really up?
2006-06-22 10:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. People are mean to others either to make themselves feel superior or because they have no heart. Do you really want to be with someone like that?
2006-06-22 10:31:14 · answer #6 · answered by miss_nursie_nurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and find another way to communicate to her, maybe she wasn't the one who didn't want to talk to you, maybe it was the guy, don't bet yourself over it though, remember the saying "they're is more than one fish in the sea".
2006-06-22 10:29:16 · answer #7 · answered by ~ ♥ Sun$hine ♥ ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
harsh...ask her if she want to continue the relationship. and if so say you want to make it more serious, "going steady". people do things in the heat of the moment. and sometimes its not worth thinking over. but just make sure its what you want. if she says no, its best to walk away, smile and start a new. (always more fish in the sea).
2006-06-22 10:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by jonahma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you just now asking about what to do when this happened months ago? You should have moved on.
2006-06-22 10:27:53 · answer #9 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her to the curb. She obviously has a need to do things like this and she's not worth your time.
2006-06-22 10:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she know of your plans?maybe there's not relationship there, it sounds that like its one sided .....move on life's too short to hang on to something that doesn't seem to be going anywhere hurting is part of being human
2006-06-22 10:32:43 · answer #11 · answered by Clyde 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋