if you were not a virgin would you tell every bf your with?

Answer 1

Well it depends, I think you can tell them that your not a virgin but you don't have to tell them how many.(hopefully not too many) but just simply say that "yes im not a virgin" but what i have done in the past doesnt matter because im with you now and your all I want...Thats what my GF did for me and we have worked out fine..going on 4 years now.

Answer 2

Nope, I didn't even tell the boyfriend that I lost my virginity to (I guess it was lucky for me I didn't bleed or give any indication like that), your virginity (or lack of) is yours to keep secret or tell, I DO suggest (since some girls DO bleed) you might consider telling the boy you choose to give your virginity to, but still entirely up to you. A guy might try harder to get in your pants knowing your a virgin, OR just the opposite, if a guy knows you've given it up before will expect you to do it again with him, so unless you contract an STD of some sort I'm all for keeping the details of your sex life from whomever. Although I found once I started getting into really serious relationships (after I had lost my virginity) I didn't mind telling a guy I was with (not someone I was casually dating or just friends with) that I HAD sex before (I just wouldn't say how many or who). It just depends on what makes you more comfortable.

Answer 3

Well, if he was not a virgin, would you want him to tell you? To know that there is a chance for disease there? I mean, if someone I was with told me he was a virgin and I magically contracted some sort of STD, I'd be wondering what was really going on. You should only to keep him safe, because as everyone knows you can have an STD with no symptoms and only be a carrier for it. And imagine the things people would think... "I can't believe she lied to him about being a virgin and now he has________."

Answer 4

Not saying that ignorance is bliss, but if every guy that youre intimate with ISNT asking you whether you are a virgin or not, there is no need to volunteer that information to them. They dont ask, you dont tell. It seems like they dont even care whether you are or arent a virgin; they are taking whatever you give them.

Plus, the men will be able to tell you arent a virgin if you have sex with them. Most men arent that stupid that they dont know the difference.

More importantly, be real with yourself. I re-read your question and I just wanted to say that not all of these guys can be considered boyfriends, right? They seem more like "bed buddies." Just keep it real in your mind that not all of them are your "Boyfriends", more like men you are cool enough with to sleep with. Dont get it twisted in your mind what you are doing and you should be good.

Answer 5

don't mention it!!!! try a little hard-2-get virgin in a playful way, i guess the next question you will be asking how to ditch a guy, guys really luv the idea. and if u're worried he is going to tell, after doing it tell him that u were worried how perfect ur first time will be, he will just forget anything else :) because he were so damn good, insist on protection before even if he says he is a virgin as well , might be doing ur trick too no1 wants to catch anything

Answer 6

1. i am a virgin
2. i couldn't tell every bf i was w/ because i don't think it's right to have sex out of wedlock, but i'm not against anyone who does.
if u aren't a virgin i think u should tell every bf ur w/ because u could be exposing him to std's, expect him to do the same.

Answer 7

I can't tell you how important it is that you tell every person you are ever with exactly how sexually active you have been in your past!
The way it was explained to me, when you have sex with some one you are having sex with everyone they've ever had sex with, I know that sounds gross but think about it, if they've had a disease and you get it and don't tell the next person, you are passing it on and are responsible for it. If you boyfriend isn't mature enough to handle that kind of information, he doesn't deserve you!

Answer 8

I think it is only a huge issue when it is the other way around. Why would you even think of telling the new boyfriend about your baggage? That is a huge mistake.
First off: He doesn't want to be blindsighted by your confessions to make yourself feel better...it won't.And 2nd,just live for the moment and focus on that!

Answer 9

Why would you want to? Unless you are 14 or 15, it's pretty much assumed that you aren't a virgin, unless you go out of your way to say you are.

Answer 10

Yes you should tell every guy your with that you had sex before and let him know the number of guys you splet with too... Because if you don't and you give that guy something your ****** for life... Just be honest... Being open and honest will get you everywhere in life!