Would you say it is honest and/or proper during maybe a not so pleasant conversation to say you need to go because of a phone call. This person has done this on several occassions. Seem like when the conversation gets a little uncomfortable, this person will do this. And what about signing off of messenger right after I sign on? Originally I dismissed this behavior. Thought that it was legitamate that there really was a call but now that it has happened so many times, It really has me wondering. Would you call this a true honest friendship between two people. Is it proper to change the subject and cut off the coversation in this manner? With me, if the conversation is getting me down I will be HONEST and say, "Hey. is it okay if we talk about something else please this conversation is bringing me down" Any ideas?
2006-06-22
09:44:42
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I did ask this person if it was something I said.. I will give this person time to answer back. I realize that people may have a "safetynet" for themselves in situauations like these but why compromise your integrity?
2006-06-22
09:57:23 ·
update #1
I understand what Marrilyn is saying but I cannot accept anything less than honesty. I will lose respect for that person.. so why bother with trying to hold on to a relationship with someone I have little respect for? I believe what ditzy is saying may be true. This person may not even realize he/she is doing it, this is his/her "saftey net" and he/she may have been doing this for so long that it has become second nature. I hope this person realizes one day that it is so much better to be honest in any realationship.
2006-06-22
10:05:09 ·
update #2
Sounds like Jodraven03 has hit it right on. Truth hurts. I still believe honesty is the best policy. Afraid of confrontation? You may be right. If this person knew me well enough they would have to know there would be nothing to fear except for me walking away with the upmost respect for them because they were honest!
2006-06-22
10:10:17 ·
update #3