everyone told me he was waiting on me to make the first move to say it before he told me again, well i did a week later( he told me back). but now almost another week later i haven't heard it come out of his mouth. when i asked why, he said he didn't want to be going around saying i love you all the time? WTF? we're 22 and have been living together(for 3 months) and have known each other since high school? i'm not trying to be pushy but why say it all if he feels like that ? does he love me or was it a drunk monemt?
2006-06-22 09:27:21 · 11 answers · asked by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it mite be that he loves u but those three words still freak him out b/c he wants to make sure he loves u.
2006-06-22 09:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Living together already, before the "I love you" huh? Well, no wonder you're confused. Instead of badgering him to say it all the time, look for the clues of how much he loves you in his everyday interactions with you. It says even more than those 3 little words. I can definitely see his side of things. My boyfriend will always tell me he loves me, even in his emails to me, but if we exchange several back and forth emails about plans we have later in the day, we don't tend to put "I love you" and "I love you too" on every single thing. Now, since he's said it to you when you're both sober, he most likely means what he says. It's possible he blurted it out while drunk and while he did mean it, perhaps he had some fear you wouldn't say it back. Say "I love you" when it's important to say it, not every 5 minutes. And keep your eyes focused on his actions instead. They will tell you all you need to know about your man.
2006-06-22 09:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just don't like saying " I love You " ...
Not sure why maybe their moms and dads didn't give them enough hugs or something but that's no reason to get mad at him or dump him ...
He said he loved you .. most people I know don't say it unless they mean it .. and you've know him since High School so I wouldn't worry too much ..
Just relax and let the relationship flow .. don't try to push anything and you'll see it's much better that way .. I use to try and plan everything .. now I sit back and watch what happens .. and I'm happier then ever !
2006-06-22 09:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. This situation doesn't look promising at all.
"when i asked why, he said he didn't want to be going around saying i love you all the time?" -- If he can't say it, he doesn't feel it. And if he doesn't feel it, you need to find out why. The answer he gave you is a bit absurd. Ask again and tell him this time, you want a real answer because it's going to effect your next step with him in life.
2006-06-22 09:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by ladonnaschild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drunk moment
2006-06-22 09:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men arent all emotional like us women. They do not feel the need to say " I love you" every hour of every day. He said it, be happy, he told you he doesnt want to always say it. Men do not feel the need for the constant affection that we do.
2006-06-22 09:58:22 · answer #6 · answered by GreenEyes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just mite love you but doesn't always want to say i love you or maybe it was because he was drunk
2006-06-22 09:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go talk to him to find out, your situation is very confusing.
2006-06-22 09:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to him and see what he is really feeling!
2006-06-22 09:29:18 · answer #9 · answered by sara s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe?
2006-06-22 09:31:25 · answer #10 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋