I met a boy which is a good friend of my family's at a party they were throwing for my birthday.I have known him since for about 2 years.We are not actually together but he always comes on to (he didnt at first we would wrestle and he would always let me bet him) and i always pushed him away but he doesnt get mad are anything we just talk about it. when he came on to me he never tried to kiss me but he's tried everything else....but why not try a kiss? Then after some time i see him again and he was kissing my neck and he just kissed me on the lips (it was pretty good although he scraped my tooth)And im sure he would not be
imtemidated by me cause i feel like he deserves better than me.While he[finally] kissed me he never tried to put his tongue in my mouth(i thought that that was strange cause he seems like the "playa" type) it was very gentle and i felt something you know.......like we clicked.We were at another family party playin games when some people left the room it go serious
2006-06-22 09:05:19 · 11 answers · asked by baby*Phat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and so. . . .its another teen relationship question.And i cant sk hoim myself cause i fear rejection.
2006-06-22 09:17:57 · update #1
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.
Most guys want sex. The question is will he marry you and commit?
Not likely - you are both probably too young.
Grow up a little before entertaining the notion of hopping into bed with anyone.
2006-06-22 09:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to find out for sure is not to do anything intimate, and that includes long kissing or use of the tongues, no touching in an arousing way. If he likes you for you, then he will stick around and he will not dsay or do anything to pressure you.
If it's he's hoping to get a little sum sum, then he'll be constantly about sex, touching, kissing and no communication.
Make sure you don't sleep with anyone till after you're married, someone who truely loves you, will wait that long.
2006-06-22 16:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by Wanna get down not the 1st night 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to find out the answer to this question without asking him is to actually start dating him, but wait on the sex. If he's interested in you, he'll want to go on dates and do activities with you, even if you're not having sex. If he really puts the pressure on, then tell him you want to wait but that you really like him and want to keep seeing you. If he gives you some kind of ultimatum to have sex with him or he's going to leave, or if he doesn't call you after that, you know it was just for the sex. Get to know him better and see if you even really like him!
2006-07-03 21:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by thecentrecannothold 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he has known you for so long , one wouldn't think he would try and play you....of course the attraction is there but I don't think he has any intentions to make it a lasting relationship...just a feeling on this..I could be wrong
2006-06-22 16:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just wants sex. Do you want to have sex with him? If not then tell him you are not ready yet and if he bothers you about it or leaves then he is just in it for the sex. But if he respects your decision and stays then he likes you.
2006-06-22 16:10:14 · answer #5 · answered by pancake_tits_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so confused ask him what he wants and It is probably sex because that is what all guys want that don't ask you out on a date
2006-06-22 16:12:59 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just want sex and he will wait and wait until he find your weakness and use it against you trust me sooner or later u will give in 2 him and when u do he wont bother u or need u anymore
2006-06-22 16:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by shredder97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u just ask him. If ur comfortable enough to be like that with him u should be comfortable enough to ask him somthing like that.
2006-06-22 16:10:13 · answer #8 · answered by mermaid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just ask him what the deal is.
2006-06-22 16:09:23 · answer #9 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for you..why arent we all lucky like that?!?!?
2006-06-22 16:09:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋