i was going out with this one guy for about 2 months, but we broke up. now i have a new boyfriend who's just as good. i like them both so much. what do i do? i'm so confused!
2006-06-22 09:03:37 · 19 answers · asked by ilsvs_fuzzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop being a whore.
2006-06-22 09:05:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm the clue here is you started dating someone else and so now the old one wants you back, its not really about you or the relationship its just wanting to maintain control over the situation. going back to an ex is never a good idea, you already know it doesn't work, its like putting spoiled milk back in the fridge and thinking it will be better next week or re-watching a movie that was bad the first time and thinking maybe this time it will be better, it just doesn't make any sense. tell the ex he missed his chance and have fun with the new one.
2006-06-22 09:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex only wants you because someone else wants you. Take your time in the new relationship and tell your ex that you are into someone else and both of you move on. You will do yourself and your new boyfriend a disservice by even considering your ex. Discontinue phone conversations and reminiscing as well. "Ex's" seem better after the relationship but that is your mind playing tricks on ya.
2006-06-22 09:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by doitreg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answering because you need a much better answer than the first one. Dude, unless you know this girl you need to quit. Anyway, don't hurt your current boyfriend to try out your ex again. There must've been a reason that it didn't work the first time. And, plus, if this one doesn't work out and he's still waiting on you, then maybe he really does love you. But, be faithful...at all costs.
2006-06-22 09:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by JD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've read the first book, now read a new one, or you can bring the two together and let them both know that you like them both equally in the same way and you don't know how to choose. Maybe, one will either call it quits and maybe they might just both be willing to let you see them both. Be sure if you would like to keep seeing them both, let it be known to both of them, that way they have the choice as to whether not be involved.
2006-06-22 09:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick to just one guy. You like the idea of two guys liking you at once.
Ex's are ex's for a reason, don't cause drama for stupid reasons. Be positive about yourself, if you are in a new relationshi[p give the poor guy a chance before you fudge it up with this ex, it's unfair to him, he didn't know you were a little girl that plays games.
2006-06-22 09:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can relate because i am in the same situation but this is what i can tell you stick with your boyfriend now if he is treating so good. cause if you break up with him for your ex your ex is going to think he can control just because you broke up with your boyfriend for him so stay with what you got
2006-06-22 09:09:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up in the first place? Is he trying to get back with you because you found someone new?
2006-06-22 09:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by callalobo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey you have a new boyfriend. dont worry so much about the last. he will get over it, this does take time hes hurt.
2006-06-22 09:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like them both u should c wich 1 treats u da best. if they both do c wich srcews up da most
2006-06-22 09:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you should just ignore our ex unless you still like him but other wise just stay away from him!!!!!!!!
2006-06-22 09:09:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋