me and my ex gf broke up because recently I just found out that she cheated on me at lease twice. I regret so much that I had been treating her like a pricess and kept buying everything she asked for. Is it OK to ask her to give back the things i bought her recently?
2006-06-22 08:52:46 · 20 answers · asked by Nate 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Let her have them. You can laugh about it later because everytime she looks at the things you brought her she will think about you. And to be perfectly honest with you, she may not get all she wants from the next dude. Let it all go. Just be careful the next go around.
2006-06-22 09:02:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
The ONLY time it is ok to take back something, is an engagement ring. Once you give a gift, it's hers (or his).
The only other exception would be if you gave her something personal, like a family heirloom. Otherwise, the gifts were just that, gifts! Take your pride, your heart and your intelligece with you and just walk away. Let it go and better luck next time!
2006-06-22 09:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by starryunicorn2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's o.k. to ask, sure, but a couple of points:
1. She's not required in any way to agree to give it back.
2. Do you really think she would?
3. Why in the world would you want to even hear this person's voice again?
Keep walking, don't look back. She (and the stuff) are NOT worth it. Good luck.
2006-06-22 08:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can't get those things back. I have been there and I know you probably feel taken advantage of but, you gave her a gift(s) because you wanted to. You can't make her give them back to you (morally or legally). Take this as a huge lesson and don't make the same mistake twice. Sorry about your breakup.
2006-06-22 08:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would never do that. gifts are gifts and why on earth would you want them back? I hope not to give to another girl because what would that be like. Oh here is a necklace I gave my old girlfriend but she was a skank so you can have it. Let her keep it because after all when you got it you gave from your heart.
2006-06-22 08:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depending on what the items are? If it was like an engagement ring Hell yes get it back because she cheated but if its other things just let her keep it
2006-06-22 08:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Mercy♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask her, but chances are, you're not going to get them back. And unless you specified that she would pay you back for the items before she got them, you can't get them back in court either. You're better off to just cut your losses and move on.
2006-06-22 08:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by cldb730 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would you want them for? this girl betrayed you by cheating on you that is not cool,and haveing those thing's back is not going to change any thing,just sum it up as a lesson learned and the next girl you date, well let her spend on you sweetie.
2006-06-22 09:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by ms suzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course! she was the one that cheated on you mate, not the other way around. Go for it! The chances are she only wanted you for your money anyway. Some people are like that...
2006-06-22 08:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by frostie_icicle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I sympathize with you, but a gift is a gift. Unless it was considered a "loan" from the word go, the things are hers to keep.
2006-06-22 08:57:36 · answer #10 · answered by kristieblades 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋