I am going to MN to see this man I met on Y!personals and I don't want to tell him about my 6 kids. Do you....

Question

think a 13 year old is old enough to stay with the kids for the weekend and how to I break it to my new man?

I AM Catholic. I even teach Sunday School. And I'm on welfare.How did you know?

Answer 1

OMG What is this?? You're just banging him for a couple of nights, right? It's not like he's comin back with you. After all, that's what he wants too, right? Tell him nothing and just split your kids up at Toys r us and Nevada Pistols Academy until you get back.

Answer 2

Either you are a card carrying nut case or you like making up questions? Which is it? Let me get your problems straight.

1) Sex is bad with the husband. But you have six kids, different fathers? Or no birth control? Next you'll be saying you're Catholic too.

2) You have six kids and want to know if a 13 year old is old enough to baby sit for the week end? I don't know of any adult I would leave six kids with for the week end. Divide them between the grandmothers. Don't forget to inform the grandmothers where you can be reached in case of an emergency.

3) You are going away to meet a guy you met on the internet and want to know how to break it to your "new" man? Where the hell did the "new" man come from? The grocery store?

4) Now I understand WHY you said you didn't have time to clean up the broken beer bottle that was sitting in front of the milk.

5) O.K.You have six kids who are probably abused. You have one husband and two lovers. Do the kids know who their fathers are?And you can't find a sitter for the week end.?

6) You don't want to tell the new internet lover about the six kids. That is a great way to start off a doomed relationship.

I sincerely hope all this is a joke and not true. But, for some reason I think it is true. Someone should and probably will remove the children from your custody at some point.
The adults never suffer because they were already screwed up. I feel so sorry for the kids. They don't choose their parents..........

Answer 3

Oh, no no no Honey! 13 is way too young to be in charge of a group. 13 might be ok alone on their own for an hour, but not in this situation. Hire a sitter or ask a family member or friend for some help.

Now, the 6 kids...you should have been honest from the start. You want a man who's going to love you for who you are and no matter how many kids you have. What if this man has never liked children? Or never wants them? And then you hit it off...it's going to be awfully disappointing for you both. How do you think this man will feel when he finds out you weren't completely honest with him? He'll wonder if he can trust you with anything at all. I think you should tell him now...it might save you a trip and it will certainly save you a lot of heartache should he be opposed to your 6 children. In the future, put it all out there. It only makes your search for love harder the longer you lie about your life.

Answer 4

You are a lousy person if you don't want to tell someone you are dating the truth about yourself. If you really expect a relationship to grow and last then you need to be honest up front.

Also a 13 year old is way too young to leave alone with your kids over the weekend.

Maybe you need to find a stable man nearer to where you live so that it doesn't take you away from your children, who should be your first responsibility.

GROW UP!

Answer 5

Damn that is alot of responsiblity to put on a 13 year old. HELL NO your kids should be your first priority and why start the relationship out as a lie it won't last. If the guys loves you then he will accept your kids if not then he isn't worth wasting your time.

Answer 6

Making a trip like that, without being completely honest is a waste of everyone's time. And no, 13 is way too young. I have heard to many news stories of kids being left home alone and the house burning down, don't do it. Not only could they accidentally die in a fire, you will get put away for child endangerment and neglect.

Answer 7

I already met that guy from MN. He has profiles all over the place! These types of men are like roses ... and you have to watch out for the pricks. Believe me, you don't want to meet this loser. Just pick up some Happy Meals for your kids and stay at home where you belong. One day, you'll thank me.

Answer 8

What a terrible woman you are!
I am like, so totally shocked that you would consider leaving a 13 year old with six kids! 3 YES, 6? NO WAY!
P.S. Is he a hottie?
P.S.S. Doesn't martinamargarita whatever understand that you just have a rather large sexual appetite and your religion doesn't allow birth control, so you keep 'breeding'? Or that sex is sex, weather it's good or bad?

Answer 9

13 is an awesome age to have control over 5 kids. Rock his world and the 5 kids won't matter. You know how much single men love children. Unless you can suck in your gut I think you won't have to tell him. Can you drop me off a pack of cigarettes on your way up?

Answer 10

I CAN SO RELATE!!! you really have martinamagra all confused!!! girl, you are so lucky to have finally got you a man!!! i have 13 kids and the reason i keep having kids is so the next one can take care of the new one. i keep waiting to find a man on here too! go to MN, meet him, DUMMY UP, make him marry you, then tell him...you'll be married, so it won't matter. i was married and on full welfare by 13! proud of it too! i can't wait for the day when i can tell my kids..."HEY Y'ALL......I GOT YOUS A NEW DADDY!!!" please see if he has an extra single, male relative, or friend for me...DON'T MENTION MY 13 KIDS!!!!!

Answer 11

Does no one get it? Maybe that's the best part of all. No one gets it.
Now, back to the question. Yes, your 13 year old needs a reality check and should be taking care of the younger siblings. Now as far as the new man goes, I think you should just lie. Lying is underrated.