My boyfriend and I are at ends now. Lately he has no time for me. We've been dating a month and i barely ever see him. I brought the issue up and he doesnt want to talk about it. As of right now i pretty much consider us done. I dont know if i should try to make us work again or just move on. This boy has been the love of my life for almost 3 years. I honestly have never felt this way and Im scared i wont again. What should i do?
2006-06-22 08:43:48 · 6 answers · asked by andrea lynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like he doesn't have the same feelings for you as you do for him. If a guy is unwilling to talk about a problem like this with you at this stage in the relationship then he isn't worth your time. A guy who loves you and respects you takes the time to listen to you and wants to deal with problems together. I think you should kick this boy to the street and find your self a real man who loves you enough to want to be with you.
2006-06-22 08:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 19⤊ 7⤋
Life is incredibly tough some times. Not all issues are handled as easily as on TV or in the movies.
The stark reality is that you currently have two choices:
1) prepare yourself for a lifetime of being treated like this or
2) put this jerk behind you
You are far too valuable and have too much to give and to know to be treated like you don't matter. I know it won't be easy but your statment that you don't know if there will ever be another is only an emotion. There is no reality in that! There are many; more importantly for you is that there is one who will delight in you, who will see the world light up when you walk into the room, who counts himself deeply blessed to have you!
Choose wisely; don't choose that which is simply less painful. Pain, although it seems forever, is only temporary.
2006-06-22 15:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by RunningUte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he won't make time for you. I would dump him like a bad habit. I was in the same situation, the guy I had been in a long term relationship (2+ years) moved a couple cities away for school and CHOOSE to spend his freetime with his family rather than me. So don't bother. I'm 1000% happier now and there is tons of guys who can't wait to see me rather than have to argue about it.
2006-06-23 12:47:23 · answer #3 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on even though that sounds mean and thoughtless, he obviously dont want the love that are trying to give him maybe he needs to grow up and learn to appreciate the love that you have for dshim and stop taking advantige of it lofe is way to short
2006-06-22 15:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by glenda d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he doesn't want to put as much effort into this relationship like you do, so move on. He isn't worth the time and energy.
2006-06-22 15:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by DDD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me you will feel it again but you won't know until you move on and find it.
2006-06-22 15:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋